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Old Apr 26, 2015, 07:11 PM
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You know it's faulty thinking. Indeed, it's #3 most common cognitive distortion

Of course you allowed yourself to become vulnerable.
Do you really think that you can go to therapy without allowing yourself to become vulnerable with the therapist ?
If you weren't vulnerable, would you need a psychotherapy at all ?
If you're not sick or in need for administrative medical paperwork, do you need to go to the doctor ?

Saying "I'm at fault because I allowed myself to become vulnerable with a therapist during a psychotherapy" is exactly like if you stated "I am at fault because I made an appointment with a lawyer for writing an affidavit and I allowed myself not to know all the legal details about affidavits".
Giucy, you make me laugh I know, I know, you're right. It makes sense.
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Old Apr 26, 2015, 07:16 PM
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Giucy, you make me laugh
Good you have some laughter

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I know, I know, you're right. It makes sense.
To go even further, even if you were a therapist yourself, it would had been as nonsensical to blame yourself for not doing therapist's job you pay her for.
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Old Apr 26, 2015, 07:55 PM
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She definitely sounds like she has a lot of narcissism. I can't remember if you are reporting her, but it sounds like you are and I think she needs to be reported. Maybe she can take some classes or something to not be such an ***.
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Old Apr 26, 2015, 09:38 PM
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Old Apr 26, 2015, 09:51 PM
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I never have. Not even from the bad ones.
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Old Apr 27, 2015, 01:32 AM
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My current T seems to have been annoyed with stuff I've done. But he hasn't chastised me or given me an ultimatum. He does explain why its not such a good idea. And we work on strategies so I don't do stupid stuff again.
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