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Old Nov 23, 2015, 06:45 PM
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I feel horrible about wasting so much money on pure vanity.
((Mastodon))

Try not to think of it like that. It's "self care".
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 06:49 PM
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One of the first things my very first T did with me was a "body inventory" or some such. She gave me a generic body outline and got me to write on it how I felt about each part.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 07:22 PM
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The only bit of my body that is not repulsive to me is my hair. I'm rather fond of it, and hairdressers tend to love it. I have it cut and coloured very often, every four months or so, and I feel horrible about wasting so much money on pure vanity.
Aww, doing something nice for yourself isn't wasting money , though I've the same reluctance to spend on myself.

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Old Nov 23, 2015, 07:22 PM
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Hi, couch.

I am home and fed. I actually had a session with my homebound student. It went surprisingly well. We concentrated on shapes and little bit of money (counting pennies). He called the octagon a stop sign, hey at least he made that connection. He called the diamond a kite. He correctly identified squares, triangles, and rectangles though. And matched the blocks he owns with th shapes on my worksheet. I am pleased.

I go back on Friday to try to knock an hour and a half of his make-up time out of the way. Hopefully, he will be having another good day.

I have to leave school job early tomorrow to go to T. Then to find somewhere to hang until CVS. T is about 3 miles away from CVS. I was supposed to work 6-10 at night at CVS on Wednesday, but I got a call today from the pharm manager asking if I was off from my school job on Wednesday. When I said I was he asked if I could work 10-10 instead. One of my co-workers got mad at her wife and punched a wall and broke her hand and had to call out. I'm just wondering how hard she had to punch to break her hand. She must have been really mad.

I bought myself an early Christmas present today. I don't have a DVD player anymore as mine broke before I moved. I decided on a portable one with a screen (my old one hooked up to a TV). Now I can use redbox again.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 07:22 PM
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Who are you and where did you come from?! Gah. /vent
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 07:26 PM
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Funny how that is. When I was growing up, it was the opposite - I have long straight hair and everyone else had wavy hair with 'body' to it. I always felt like my hair was so ugly and flat and nothing I did to it would make it keep a curl. Now I see everyone going with their flat irons trying to get their hair to look like mine

I'm sure your hair is beautiful QM, it's just different to those around you, and those hairdressers don't know how to deal with it - I had similar problems with hairdressers back in the day too. They'd scowl at my hair and make disgusted faces because they were clueless as to how to handle it. It was totally their problem, not mine or my hair's
*hugs* everyone here goes to professional hair places to get their hair straightened.

Bosses, colleagues, acquaintances all keep commenting on how I should straighten my hair lol. It isn't even curly, just wavy.

If people stopped making disgusted faces,I'd like my hair's natural waves even more.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 08:43 PM
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My T says stuff like that to me sometimes. It is rather formal, but I do tend to like formality and I take it as a compliment.
I wonder if you are uncomfortable with being held in high regard? Because that's what it means to me when my T says it...
What I bolded - probably. Likely. Yes, by someone I respect as much as I respect her, especially. Interesting. I shall think on this.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 08:58 PM
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Ever have one of those days where everything goes full on until you curl up on the couch? 9pm, everything can leave me alone until 6am tomorrow now.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 08:59 PM
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All that AND prednisone withdrawal? I'm lucky to be breathing today!
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 09:16 PM
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One of the first things my very first T did with me was a "body inventory" or some such. She gave me a generic body outline and got me to write on it how I felt about each part.
Thats going on my to do list.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 09:42 PM
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Question for couchies:
Am I a bad person for dropping a friendship until the other person makes the effort to get together?
Am I a bad person for hoping they dont make the effort because of all the drama the person continually has in their life?
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 09:51 PM
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One of the first things my very first T did with me was a "body inventory" or some such. She gave me a generic body outline and got me to write on it how I felt about each part.
Just put this on my to-do list too!!
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:01 PM
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Question for couchies:
Am I a bad person for dropping a friendship until the other person makes the effort to get together?
Am I a bad person for hoping they dont make the effort because of all the drama the person continually has in their life?

Nope, you're not.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:14 PM
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Question for couchies:
Am I a bad person for dropping a friendship until the other person makes the effort to get together?
Am I a bad person for hoping they dont make the effort because of all the drama the person continually has in their life?
Not at all.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:19 PM
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Celebrate! I finally finished the floor! All that's left is free-handing something in the too large spaces between the real tiles, and going over any slops where there should be coral. I'll be done by Thanksgiving!

It's cold here and I never can decide what's worse, our summers or this bone chilling arthritis aggravating skin drying miserable stiff condition. I'm such a whiner!!!

Good night Couchies see you on the flip side.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:45 PM
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Question for couchies:
Am I a bad person for dropping a friendship until the other person makes the effort to get together?
Am I a bad person for hoping they dont make the effort because of all the drama the person continually has in their life?
I was kinda wondering kinda the same thing. It felt like i had to jump when she called. And if i called, the answer was gonna be no. When i mentioned this, she got mad. But then theres the drama. I thought about calling, but i just dont have the energy right now. Its not about being bad or good or right or wrong, but accepting the consequences of your actions.

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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:45 PM
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Question for couchies:
Am I a bad person for dropping a friendship until the other person makes the effort to get together?
Am I a bad person for hoping they dont make the effort because of all the drama the person continually has in their life?
No, and No. You can only help yourself, and if this person is draining you, the best thing you can do for yourself is put up boundaries.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:54 PM
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Again today I tried to log in twice as Biologicalartist Maybe I need a name change...
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 10:55 PM
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DD No definitely not.

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Old Nov 23, 2015, 11:46 PM
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Well, I just spent forever looking for songs and/or videos on shapes and money that are free for my homebound student. I found quite a few that were free on teacherspayteachers.com

Now to plan lessons that will actually benefit him and he is capable of learning. When I was first told high school geometry by the county, I planned angles, radius, etc. as the first lesson, but once I met him, I had to change that. He can barely name basic shapes, so I should probably start there. And money, he can barely count pennies, nevermind telling you how much each coin is worth. So, I should do that as well, especially since money is part of his education plan goals.

I need to get shape blocks too, so I can have him match shapes.

Well it is almost midnight, so I need to get to bed. Later couch. I will shower in the morning, since I did not tonight. Whew.
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Old Nov 23, 2015, 11:58 PM
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Thanks for the input everyone!! It is helpful and consistent with rl input as well which makes things even easier. Kinda felt like I was being mean but I truly just don't have the energy for this friend much less the time come January. However, time will be a luxury for anyone with me come January...if everything pans out.
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Old Nov 24, 2015, 12:10 AM
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A swimming emoji? How cool is that!

and look what I did...
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Old Nov 24, 2015, 01:11 AM
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Hugs to those who want or need them. Holidays can be a tinderbox of family issues.

I have a family member in town so at least I'm not alone on Thanksgiving although I may be on Christmas.

The possibility of massive change is starting to scare me.

I've been searching T's online and most profiles are downright scary.
Worried if changes come down on me quickly, finding a new T will be the toughest thing to do.

PS If I were slimmer I'd love short spiky hair! Maybe even platinum
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Old Nov 24, 2015, 01:21 AM
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Stopdog - bad news - a new moving emoji called swimming -
What emotion does that indicate?
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Old Nov 24, 2015, 01:22 AM
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A swimming emoji? How cool is that!

and look what I did...
More blinky things? Why? AndI don't understand what the fish is supposed to mean. Who needs a fish blinky thing? Ever?
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