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Old Dec 17, 2015, 11:57 PM
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the kitten is on crack or something tonight. she is ping-ponging all over the house playing with this toy and that toy and randomly leaping straight up off the floor and climbing straight up the back of the cat tree and then sailing off the top level onto the couch and batting at one of the other cats and then back to the floor and pushing a toy around and now pulling at the blanket my h is covered with.... holy toledo!! she is a bundle of pure adrenaline! I am so in love with her.

I loved this description. It made me laugh. Thanks.

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Old Dec 18, 2015, 12:36 AM
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Hi, couch.

Been a few busy days, home from CVS and caught up on the couch. Now it is almost midnight and I am still awake and not tired.

Saw pdoc today. It was a good appointment overall. He asked how I was feeling, I said better. He then made a comment that I must be taking my medication then. I said I was. Then he makes a remark that I am stubborn and must like learning things the hard way. My comment back: "Yep, and I get it from my dad...he's stubborn as a mule too." Some other typical questions and answers. Then it was time for my shot. As he was opening the box and needle, I got the courage to ask him how many patients he had on injections. His response was he never counted, but he had a lot. Then he goes on to tell me that he has mostly men on them because women usually are more compliant. He then gets talking about there is a new Invega that is once every three months, but he is concerned about it and the side effects that could occur, so he was going to let his collegues test it out first and then tell him the results before he will put any of his patients on it. By this time, the needle was on the shot and he asked if I was ready. I said that we might as well get it over with. He then tells me: "Just think, you won't have to do it again for 4 weeks." My comment back to him: "Smart A S S"

While sitting in the waiting room I got to smirk at other patients trying not to laugh. The other 2 were college aged kids. This lady comes out of his office asking a million and one questions, pdoc tells her he already answered that 10 times and was not going to answer it again. He calls the next patient back (not one of the college kids but an older lady). The lady that just came out is asking the receptionist if she thinks that you can have psychosis if you are able to think straight. The receptionist politely tells that lady that is a clinical question that needs to be discussed between a patient and a doctor. The lady asks the same question again. The receptionist gives the same answer. This goes on for 5 minutes. Then the lady asks it she can go ask pdoc herself. The receptionist tells her that he is in session with another patient and that cannot be interrupted. He lady then tell that receptionist that she'll just go knock on his door and ask him. The receptionist has to get up and block her from going down the hall. The lady begs and pleads for another 5 minutes to go knock on the door to ask him the question. The receptionist hand her pdoc's business card, points out the cell phone number and tells her she can call him after 5pm when he sees his last patient and ask him then. The lady swears she will just be quick and needs to go knock on the door. The receptionist politely explains that she cannot allow her to do that. The lady then asks when that appointment will end, so she can just wait for him to talk to him when he comes out. The receptionist tells her he has other patients scheduled and waiting and she just needs to call his cell after 5pm and talk to him. The lady complains that he probably won't answer. The receptionist tells her that he answers for all his patients at anytime outside of office hours. The lady finally leaves. Wow. The whole time me and the 2 college kids are smirking at each other. When she leaves, I make the comment "oh my". One of the college kids then says they thought she'd never leave. We are then laughing. I feel bad for the receptionist. Wow, some people. I understand you want your questions answered, but to demand to go knock on the door when you were just with pdoc for 25 minutes (her appointment an over) is a little extreme. Then to still demand to go and knock when you are asked to call later... It's not like she was being denied her question being answered, she was just being asked to wait for a bit. So, I got a good laugh.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:44 AM
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While you are waiting for the guinea pig pics(none of the so far are good quality) you can play find the curlew chick. A curlew family have taken over our yard.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 02:37 AM
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Ugh. I'm so sick. I have a long couple of days ahead and really need some sleep but even with meds I'm so congested that it just isn't happening.
Plus when I am sick my muscles get bad because my muscles have trouble converting food into energy to start with. The combination of extra strain on my metabolism from being sick and not eating much because I don't feel well is causing massive muscle cramps. For a while my abdominal muscles were cramped up so bad that I thought I might have to go to the er. Which would be a pain because when you have a rare disease and you show up in the er you have to spend a lot of time convincing them that you actually know what is wrong and what will fix it. Its settled down some now after forcing down some Gatorade. I'm not nauseous but keep getting that coppery taste in my mouth like I might be nauseous at any moment.
My last T session before break is tomorrow am and I really don't want to be exhausted and snotting everywhere...
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 07:01 AM
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While you are waiting for the guinea pig pics(none of the so far are good quality) you can play find the curlew chick. A curlew family have taken over our yard.
How darling!!
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 09:20 AM
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Coca cola is what I drink when feeling puny.
My southern family put great faith in coca cola syrup.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 09:21 AM
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I too put great faith in cola syrup - can you still buy it in the drug store in it's pure form where you are SD? I could when I was in the south but out here in the west it is seemingly impossible to find.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 09:25 AM
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Alas-it is not as easy to get anymore. Now I go to great lengths to buy the coke made with real sugar and use that.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 12:02 PM
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Today is the first of my last two days at Panera I start at 2. Then tonight Im going out with my friend for a bit. Havent seen her in a few weeks. Hopefully it goes well. I get easily frustrated with her sometimes but it should be ok. Then back to Panera at 2 tomorrow and Im DONE! Yippee! Although one manager already asked me to come back. Hah! We'll see.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 12:24 PM
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I really think that it is a rude and unpleasant thing for someone who only knows you from a few forum posts to suggest that your therapy in ineffective or haven't made sufficient progress to satisfy their criteria.

I have many big issues to sort through in therapy but whether I think I am making progress is up to me.

I know not everyone approves of how my therapist does things but I try not to judge anyone and to always describe my experiences as my own alone, recognizing that other people have different needs.

That was just really rude and uncalled for.
Late the game but yeah that bothers me too. I've been invalidated on therapy things. Unless someone is expressing concern or discomfort about their own therapy, I try to take a live and let live no matter how I might personally feel about their situation.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 12:32 PM
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Can one ignore a whole thread? I accidentally read it again no need to lie down in a darkened room now.
With some cola syrup, what even is that?
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 12:57 PM
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It's the syrup base for Coca-Cola. They sell it to soothe upset tummies. Best is 1 TBSP over a spoonful of crushed up ice.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:02 PM
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What the heck, you guys? Quit doing that to yourselves! Wait, sorry. Shouldn't tell you what to do. Please interpret that as 'I care about you very much and hate to see you hurting.' I say that wrong all the time and I know I periodically upset people.

On a light note, I am planning to order a coffee mug that says, "Your Google search is NOT the equivalent of my law degree."
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:06 PM
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I wish we could ignore whole threads. *sigh*

I'm sorry Mast
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:08 PM
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What the heck, you guys? Quit doing that to yourselves! Wait, sorry. Shouldn't tell you what to do. Please interpret that as 'I care about you very much and hate to see you hurting.' I say that wrong all the time and I know I periodically upset people.

On a light note, I am planning to order a coffee mug that says, "Your Google search is NOT the equivalent of my law degree."
I love those! My favorite is the medical degree one. I just read a post by a lady who was like "The doctor told my SO that my daughter needed yada yada yada. WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS? I didn't just make this stuff up! I did my research!"

I was like, that doc needs to drink out of the mug next time he sees you.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:25 PM
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**TW: mild self harm**

A thread where I was invalidated and my opinion and experience was exposed as untrue or irrelevant has recently been resurrected. Reading the first few posts of it now made me smash my fist in the door post for the first time in a long, long time. I get so angry and feel so worthless. I don't think I ever replied in the thread at the time because I was really rather terribly hurt so I just stayed away from PC. I would kind of like to reply now but I guess it's pointless this much later - besides, I would not want to hurt the other person whom I like and admire, and who was in the right. I should not have posted in the first place so if I did I have only myself to blame for the fallout. Never post, Mastodon - at least not about therapy, or your opinions, thoughts or feelings. At least not if they don't agree with those of the real people.

I just hope T doesn't notice that my hand looks a bit injured today. I won't see him for three weeks after this session and there is no lasting harm done to my hand.
I'm not sure if you're talking about my "bad therapy" thread, but I did not mean to invalidate you. I felt invalidated by what you said so i guess invalidation can work both ways. I do apologize if I caused you any hurt. Not my intention. I don't personally attack people here like some do.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:26 PM
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What the heck, you guys? Quit doing that to yourselves! Wait, sorry. Shouldn't tell you what to do. Please interpret that as 'I care about you very much and hate to see you hurting.' I say that wrong all the time and I know I periodically upset people.

On a light note, I am planning to order a coffee mug that says, "Your Google search is NOT the equivalent of my law degree."
Do they have that for veterinarians?????
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:28 PM
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Late the game but yeah that bothers me too. I've been invalidated on therapy things. Unless someone is expressing concern or discomfort about their own therapy, I try to take a live and let live no matter how I might personally feel about their situation.

Thanks. Its REALLY bugging me. I decided to just not look at the thread again but it was really painful. Like I don't have enough self doubt without someone suggesting I not doing "good enough"
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:33 PM
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I love those! My favorite is the medical degree one. I just read a post by a lady who was like "The doctor told my SO that my daughter needed yada yada yada. WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS? I didn't just make this stuff up! I did my research!"


I was like, that doc needs to drink out of the mug next time he sees you.

I work with people who believe an internet search = research. Believe me, it's not even worth the argument. Smile and nod, smile and nod...

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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:34 PM
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I've started utilizing the ignore function a little more liberally than I used to. It makes it a bit easier - don't know if that would help.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:35 PM
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Can one ignore a whole thread?
That would be a truly useful feature. Some threads just aren't worth subjecting myself to. I think it would be a more useful feature than ignore certain posters actually.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 01:38 PM
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I work with people who believe an internet search = research. Believe me, it's not even worth the argument. Smile and nod, smile and nod...
You know, there are times I've distrusted a professional. But then my next step is to talk to another professional in the field. Google can help me formulate questions... anyway, I just wish people respected expertise a bit more.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 02:03 PM
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I'm FFFFRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEE!!! May the festivities begin!!

I managed to get all of my research papers graded before I left, so I came home with nothing to work on over Christmas break!! Hallelujah!

Four more symphony concerts to perform: 1 tonight; 2 tomorrow; 1 on Sunday. My boys went last night and I managed to get them some decent tickets. Tonight my husband will go. The boys enjoyed themselves.

My friend who had the heart transplant 5 days ago is going well. He had a little scare yesterday; he started having trouble speaking so they were concerned he had a stroke. Fortunately, they discovered it was metabolic, fixed the issue and he is completely back to normal today.
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 04:05 PM
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I work with people who believe an internet search = research. Believe me, it's not even worth the argument. Smile and nod, smile and nod...

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I hate when that happens!!! Seriously, the first few times i read that on the interwebs, i didnt understand, then i was like wtf???
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Old Dec 18, 2015, 04:16 PM
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Reading the information that comes up from an internet search is some research.
I am not all that enamored of expertise and certainly not the blind kind where one is discouraged from questions and deserving of a thorough answer. In lawyer land - someone can go pro se if they choose. In medical land - the lobby is much stronger and works much much harder at keeping tools out of the hands of the non-anointed. I choose to not engage with that establishment voluntarily and hope to be dead instead should anyone try and foist it upon me involuntarily - I am certainly not going to an md as a supplicant. I will read and use herbs and so forth for myself. But even there, the govt is more likely to try and interfere with some useful herbs and natural products.
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