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In looking at my local area, I see a slew of negative reports about my therapist on Yelp. He happens to charge a high fee, and in looking at the reviews not one person mentions his therapeutic skill. It's all about the fee for these reviewers.
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You're absolutely right about the process being rigged. Yelp stinks. Years ago I got an account because I wanted to warn people about a local business. But Yelp hid the review in it's "untrustworthy" section, because I hadn't established a history of posting. So I posted tons of reviews, mostly positive. Still that review (and the others, if I remember correctly) stayed hidden. I experimented with other accounts, and it was clear that Yelp would hide bad reviews for businesses. (When I read criticisms of Yelp, the focus seemed to be in defense of businesses whose reputations were harmed by unfairly negative reviews. That was the opposite of what I observed.) My advice? Post criticisms in the many doctor review sites. Create a (free) website. Be clear, fair, and detailed. This will be found via Google. True, your review is only one vote, but if details match what patients experience themselves, it will have an impact. And of course the more people who do this for a horrible T, the more impact it will have. Audio record a session that illustrates the problems, do it secretly, and post the audio file on your website. Eleven states require both parties to consent to the recording. So I suppose I should advise you not to take that step in those states. |
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I reviewed my ex-T on yelp and tried to be as honest as possible, stating that she had been somewhat competent but a bad a fit for me nonetheless. Why would reviewers be more subjective or prone to extremes while reviewing therapists than when they review bars or restaurants? Sure sometimes you had a terrible experience and you want to vent but most of the reviews I read on Yelp are well-written, informative and the people who wrote them seem to only want others to avoid bad experiences/recommend a great place. Am I too optimistic? I don't think so. |
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I do not think posters on this thread are dismissing negative reviews and recommending they be ignored. Likewise, they are not embracing positive reviews and recommending that they be taken as gospel. They are simply saying, online reviews must be taken with a grain of salt. Well-written or not (and frankly they often are not), they do not give you the full picture.
And lolagrace is right - the best way to be sure you're hiring someone with whom you'll click is personal word of mouth. My best relationships with any professional have come from personal referrals. |
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I also think sometimes the sites put constraints on the reviewer(number of words or slots to fill in sorts of things) as to leave the reviews badly written or odd.
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The Yelp Dilemma: Clients Reviewing Their Therapists on Review Sites - Dr. Keely Kolmes One-star therapy? 2-star therapist? Why online reviews give psychiatrists anxiety - SFGate |
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I have an axe to grind. I am also fairly bitter about what my ex T did to me. I think she got away with murder in a way, made a good chunk of cash, and is possibly tweaking other people's heads with her incompetence and emotional instability. And what happened between us is so far invisible. No oversight, no reporting. So I think using Yelp to document all this, publicly, is possibly entirely appropriate (assuming appropriate restraint and protection of privacy). Warn others, and allow me some means to restore autonomy and correct the extreme power imbalance. You got a problem with that? |
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I've no problem with therapists being reviewed on Yelp. I'm another one who wouldn't personally give online reviews much credence, though.
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If you want to write a review of your ex-therapist, who if I remember your story correctly was pretty bad, go ahead. But I don't think it will right any power imbalance, just because of the reactions to online reviews mentioned here - a complaint against her would do so, however. Even if it were dismissed, I believe it would remain part of her licensing file and possibly available to the public (at least in my state). |
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Also filing a formal complaint takes a lot of time. And prospective consumers would not know to look, or where to look, for such things. Takes effort. Yelp is quick, easy, and immediate. I think the articles from T's expressing anxiety about this makes plain that it does have a big impact. I hesitate for precisely that reason -- do I want to make such a public statement that could affect her livelihood. This is also mixed up with unconscious desire to protect the quasi-parent figure, etc. |
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I would not leave a negative review even for my x therapist who treated me very badly. When i did review her once, i found some positive things to say about her as well. But i was also truthful, although i probably sugar coated things.
Years ago, My current t had her reputation nearly ruined on a rating site. People who did not like her posted negative things and told lies. It upset my t very, very much that people she once trusted would do that to her . I still feel terrible for her. |
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I think any time a T imposes termination on a client against their will, it should become part of the T's record or otherwise documented. |
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While therapists are *supposed* to document a forceful termination, and they're *supposed* to refer that client to someone else, you make a good point that they are policing themselves. Its only when their licensing board gets a complaint with evidence that their license can be yanked. And I doubt that many clients who have been hurt feel confident enough to file a complaint, or want to bother with the lengthy process. And abandonment is just plain wrong.
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Yelp at least bypasses all this bulls**t and gives the client the power to speak without any meddling from professionals. |
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Stumbled across this today and it reminded me of this thread. It's a discussion by therapists for therapists about negative online reviews. I didn't read it and don't really care about the topic, but I thought, "Gee. I bet BudFox would love to (hate)read this."
So, there you go if you're interested: Modern Day Digital Revenge on sites such as LinkedIn, Google+ and Yelp |
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I am glad it causes them some concern. I do have to laugh at the suggestion about asking supervisors and professors to rate them. As a consumer, I would think those sorts of reviews worse than bad customer ones.
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All I can say is, if a therapist or other professional did me demonstrable, provable damage, I would want to hit them where there is the greatest potential to do them harm and possibly protect others in the future. That to me is not something best done via online review. But to each their own. |
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Two of the ones I am considering for No. 3 had reviews by fellow therapists on Google+. I immediately crossed them off the list. Such reviews are unethical to me and I don't want to see a therapist who would allow or solicit such reviews. Plus, where there's smoke, there's fire and a reason those reviews were posted.
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I found reviews for my current Pdoc and previous Pdoc. The review for my current Pdoc doesn't match with how I know her. One was a complaint about the staff, not her. The other said she was controlling. She has never been controlling with me. They also said she didn't care. I can see how someone might think that if they didn't know her.
Now the reviews for my previous Pdoc were true...mostly. He's a major ***hole. Major!
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So does that automatically make Yelp reviews (or any other source of info) irrelevant? Seems like a logical fallacy. |
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