I know I started a thread some time ago about our Ts thinking of us outside of session. Last week when I was feeling depressed, my T called me at 8:30 PM to tell me that my pdoc called my meds into the pharmacy. I was in class and did not pick up the phone. And as I explained in earlier posts, I was all annoyed and angry at my T because his message was so 'business-like,' and when I had spoken with him earlier that day, he had showed so much empathy and awesomeness.

But I was still able to pick out something really, really good as a result of the message.

It was 8:30 PM. I really don't think he was in the office at that time. If I am correct, it means that maybe he called me from home. It means that he was forced to think of me outside of session, LOL.

How pathetic.

[SecretGarden]

Yes...but oh so true. :-)

[MissCharlotte]

Pinksoil,

I love this. Oh, yes I would say you are correct. Lucky you.

I also hang on to any mention or hint of out of session thoughts....I called T last week after my eye surgery and left a message that I was okay. When I saw him a few days later, he expressed concern that he should have called me back, and was I upset that he didn't, etc. So, I said, no but was happy that he was worried....

Yeah, great news. Hold onto it!!

[lauren_helene]

Hey Pink, that isn't pathetic at all

I hope you are feeling better.

When my former T left me messages, he was also very business-like. But, that was because he didn't know who might get to the answering machine first, or who I might be with when I listened to the msg.

Hope that helps. em

[jacq10]

Thats not pathetic at all! I would have done the exact same thing! One of the first things i notice from either emails, or phone calls, whatever, is the time people sent it at. For some reason thats important to me? lol

[Perna]

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When my former T left me messages, he was also very business-like. But, that was because he didn't know who might get to the answering machine first, or who I might be with when I listened to the msg.

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I'm with Emily! How "personal" can one be talking to an answering machine? Yes, I would definately hang on to the fact he called you on "his" time to give you an extra bit of information you could have found out or "assumed" (if he/they said they'd call it in).