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I remember telling my current t this in early days, altho we have talked about it again recently. He said he doesnt do it because it doesnt work. Sounds like we miss our mom j/k not really

I wish that sometimes from my t too. As in why are you so damn nice all the time. I guess that comes from my struggle with accepting that the t relationship is a professional one. Not a "normal" kind. Or something.

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As someone who uses a walking stick, i have been noticing recently that i do depend on it. I wouldnt want my crutch to go all bendy on me. I do that on my own.

I don't find therapists all that nice. Sure they mutter crap, but I don't look at it as nice - just more like they are trying to do something at me.

I want a t thats like frosting! I think thats what we're saying here! Why else would these two seemingly unrelated ideas crosspost?

Smooths over my mistakes. Accentuates my good points. Good on its own. Carp like that.

My T invalidates me periodically. Anyone want to borrow him? LOL. He has said things like, "you know that is total crap, right?" Also told me something I said was bull ****.

No. 1 once informed me that the reason she liked me was I didn't BS myself. That was the moment I knew she didn't have a clue - I BS myself all the time.

Yeah, that is my T's point. I was bs'ing myself and him.

I have been yelled at as a matter of course all my life first growing up and constantly at work (except the blissful handful of years i was not doing call center work) that it feels weird sometimes t being warm and kind. Except that one time we yelled at each other and i hung up on her. Usually i wallow in her niceness. Which explains why i continue to go. To wallow in the frosting. Heh

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Wait. If i eat a spoonful of frosting can i skip t? Does that count?

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A spoonful of frosting helps the therapy go down,
The therapy go down,
A spoonful of frosting helps the therapy go down,
In the most de-light-ful way.



I totally have a future on Broadway. I can dance too!

I wish I could do this today... eat frosting instead of going to T. I hate when I feel like it's going to be a hard session. Maybe I'll just take in some frosting and see if we can eat it together instead of talking.

Have been thinking about this...then shoving it out of my brain because I don't want it to be so: Do I really feel love for T...or do I just love how she makes me feel?

And along that same line i recently realized that t has been reflecting back to me the good stuff about me so i can see it and learn to love myself, is what i think i feel for t, actually love for myself? And its such a foreign concept my mind makes it about her??

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I don't like frosting.

Suddenly i want to extend my break....

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...and eat frosting. Except that would make my tooth hurt.

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Its Betty Crocker frosting and I have a secret wish that my t would hit me and then I would know the score. Its too hard to work out whats happening when he is nice

Crocus Glad your job is safe, at the moment.

Sitting in the eye of an emotional storm.

I got a text back from T saying he could see me on Tuesday. This craziness has to ease up soon.

Hope your session goes well. Any left over frosting pass this way Left-over frosting...hehehehehe Just look what I did with the flipping ellipsis.

You totally do!! That made me giggle out loud at work when I was sneaking a peek at my phone earlier!

So as I was walking to my car after work I thought HEY! I am going to go get my hair cut on the way home! And it was a totally brilliant decision because I love the results! There was no wait when I got there and the gal I had has cut my hair before and she remembered how thick it is. She did a great job, I'm so happy I didn't talk myself out of it and just come home instead! I swear it makes me feel/look younger.

Ok working with frosting in the heat is interesting. I've had to do it stages and chill it. Everytime I take the cake out the frosting becomes a little bit more tacky and harder to work with. Next time I will try using some warm water on my spatula. Nearly 3/4 finished now. It won't be a masterpiece but it is made with love.