Couch 114 - Take a Pew

Oh my lord I can't even.....

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I have seen my t outside of her office exactly twice and the first one really doesn't even count. 1) in my first year she brought my water bottle out to me in the parking lot cuz I'd forgotten it and 2) when I met her at the resort she was staying at when visiting here a year ago before she moved back. That was it.

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Please do update us on how your next session goes.

I'm sure it will be memorable.

Seriously, I'm worried she's going to want to talk about this.

For me, it would be a short conversation:

W:so how did you feel seeing me naked in a locker room?

SD: Like you need to get dressed more quickly and, seriously, quit waving to me outside of this office. I mean it. Stop it.

Omg.. I have no words, I am sure she will want to talk about this in your next session.

Personally, I would tell her that waving at me while her wobbly bits are exposed is a serious boundary crossing for me, eek.

Wobbly bits lmao! I was thinking the same thing. And wondering about the confidence women have in the locker room, because I definitely don't have any of that.

Me either. I'm really ugly in my opinion.

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Oh atat I still can't even.... no words... my t would probably laugh it off and say something like 'I gotta be me' or something but I would probably pass out on the spot.

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Oh my lord eeeelkkkkkkkkk

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Yet another upside of having a male T...

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Lol JS.. I thought the same thing!

I think its a matter of practice. I've played sports all my life. And as a veterinarian if I am out having fun and get a call where I have to deliver a foal I'll just take off my shirt and do.it in my bra if its a shirt I don't want to trash. I am pretty sure I could change in front of anyone.

The only time I was every embarrassed was during my heart attack and they were shaving my pubes in preparation for my stent placement. I am there all naked , legs spread so.they could prep my groin and I hear " oh my god!!! Dr. Bay!!!! Are you OK??" Then to the prep nurse " that's my horse vet!"
I wanted to die. Except I also wanted to live.

But in general I am comfortable changing anywhere. I would not however want to.see my T naked or be naked in front of my T. That would be not fun at all.

I know I will never see my T naked, and that is a very good thing. Like some others said, the up to having a male T!

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I am not hugely concerned about being naked nor seeing others. To me the upsetting part would be the therapist waving at me under any circumstances.

It is possible to accidentally see men naked too.

I just don't like seeing naked people or being naked in front of others. Actually. I used to try my hardest to put my gym shirt on while I had my other shirt over me, and to cover myself with it as it was long to get my shorts on. I hated that blasted required class.

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Far less likely though. Unless you favor certain forms of adult entertainment...
And I think it's safe to say my T isn't a gym rat anyways

Nakedness is not something that particularly bothers me for the most part. However, if I happened to run into previous T naked in a gym locker room... Yeah... I think I'd go through the floor. I actually think I wouldn't be too bothered if it were T.

I have, for some reason, accidentally seen more naked men than women. Doors open up and there they are. Gyms are different - there the nakedness is not accidental in a locker room but the specific person is. And, due to interviews and such, we have male students in various forms of undress in the school all the time, and sometimes doors don't shut all the way etc. So if they are changing into a suit from biking in or out of one and into casual clothes or gym clothes or biking (it does happen a lot around biking because no underwear is worn), it can happen. And for awhile I spent a lot of time biking as a hobby - so male bits abounded.

I'm sorry - I did not mean to make anyone sad.
It is my reality though.

Think that all you want, Crocus, but in our eyes, you will always be wonderful, kind, and very caring.

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I don't think you can make anyone else feel anything - if that is of any use. One may have a response, but it is theirs, not because someone else made it happen.

Indeed, anything else would be imbuing people with magical powers over others. In my own case - and this applies to nobody else as far as I am concerned - if I post or say or express something that makes somebody else (quite independently and of their own volition) react with sadness or any unpleasant feeling, it means that I should have kept my fat mouth quiet - it's as simple as that. It is always safest to be quiet.

None of us have a problem with you talking. This is a safe place to say it all. Just keep talking.

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I do not disagree that I have no problem with crocus talking.
But I do suggest one might reconsider speaking for others.