Couch 142 - Pope Hyginus' Final Resting Place (~Something in Latin~)

Jun 03, 2017, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

I am making mini quiche.

I look forward to the day when I can whisk eggs without hearing future ex's voice in my head, telling me I'm doing it wrong.

was he a chef? My ex was a chef and I can still him saying from a different room that I am holding a utensil wrongly.

stopdog · Jun 03, 2017, 07:52 PM

I did not know one could whisk eggs wrong. I wonder if my usual use of the blender for such things would send him over the edge?

Jun 03, 2017, 07:52 PM

I love quiche.

anais_anais · Jun 03, 2017, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

I have never travelled anywhere in my country maybe I should do that first.

That could be useful, like going to a city and getting the hang of the public transit system. They're all pretty similar no matter where you are though it's infinitely less stressful in your own language.

Jun 03, 2017, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by anais_anais

That could be useful, like going to a city and getting the hang of the public transit system. They're all pretty similar no matter where you are though it's infinitely less stressful in your own language.

I am fine with public transit systems having lived for many years in a capital city but our capital cities are nowhere near a large those overseas. I just get confused in large crowds and if I have to negotiate somewhere Heathrow or another large airport I would be lost.

Jun 03, 2017, 08:03 PM

I would go somewhere rural I saw a Tony Robinson doco last night where he walked Bronte country and I thought that's what I would like to do.

atisketatasket · Jun 03, 2017, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

was he a chef? My ex was a chef and I can still him saying from a different room that I am holding a utensil wrongly.

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Originally Posted by stopdog

I did not know one could whisk eggs wrong. I wonder if my usual use of the blender for such things would send him over the edge?

Not a chef - in fact a terrible cook - and what I was doing wrong was whisking counterclockwise instead of clockwise.

Jun 03, 2017, 08:04 PM

I also would like to see where my family came from

Jun 03, 2017, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

Not a chef - in fact a terrible cook - and what I was doing wrong was whisking counterclockwise instead of clockwise.

I hate those sorts of people, did you hi him with a saucepan? I had to take my ex to the hospital where I worked because he required stitches and passed out. BTW that was the last time I stood up to him physically

junkDNA · Jun 03, 2017, 08:07 PM

My roommate kept trying to say scent satchel but couldn't get it out so she kept saying it.. I thot she was having a stroke

junkDNA · Jun 03, 2017, 08:07 PM

Her husband and I were concerned lol

Jun 03, 2017, 08:59 PM

You all cracked me up today with your doll talk. I will jump on the bandwagon and invest.

DodgersMom · 09:30 PM

I am having a bad anxiety night

Jun 03, 2017, 09:09 PM

lurkers

stopdog · Jun 03, 2017, 09:12 PM

I don't think it is a therapist's place to be disappointed or not in a client. And why would it possibly matter if they were? To me, it would be about them more than the client. I would think any therapist who became disappointed in a client should go get themselves checked out - they have crossed the line into a place they do not get to be.

DodgersMom · Jun 03, 2017, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

I don't think it is a therapist's place to be disappointed or not in a client. And why would it possibly matter if they were? To me, it would be about them more than the client. I would think any therapist who became disappointed in a client should go get themselves checked out - they have crossed the line into a place they do not get to be.

I said it's irrational. It is my mind trying to scare me. I do this **** all the time. I just wanted to know if anyone else ever had similar feelings. It's obvious I got a long ways to go in therapy, so many lifelong issues to work out

Jun 03, 2017, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedCheeseMaker

lurkers

Hi there lurkers. Come on out when your ready. We are here.

stopdog · Jun 03, 2017, 09:19 PM

Is today lurker day or something?

stopdog · Jun 03, 2017, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 2.0

You all cracked me up today with your doll talk. I will jump on the bandwagon and invest.

Have they set up the kickstarter page yet?

healed84 · Jun 03, 2017, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Have they set up the kickstarter page yet?

We need a prototype first.. who can see a doll together??

healed84 · Jun 03, 2017, 09:51 PM

So, part of the email I sent t tonight was asking him to give me a number of email I could send a timeframe. I suggested a 7 day window. I am sure he will not give me a number.. but man, it would be nice to have a clear line.

SoConfused623 · Jun 03, 2017, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by junkDNA

when i need to tell T something that i thnk is weird or embarrassing or i dont have the words to say it, i write it down and give it to him. i sometimes even say i want u to read this but i DO NOT want to discuss it yet- so at least T knows about it which makes me feel less alone. then i pick it up and talk about it at a later time when i am more comfortable with the fact that he knows

Wow, that's really helpful. I've been struggling with how to tell T something and this is a great idea! How long is it between when he reads the secret and when you're actually ready to talk about it?

Sorry, I know this topic has already passed by, but I'm really behind on the couch and when i saw this i felt compelled to respond.

Thanks, JDNA

stopdog · Jun 03, 2017, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by healed84

So, part of the email I sent t tonight was asking him to give me a number of email I could send a timeframe. I suggested a 7 day window. I am sure he will not give me a number.. but man, it would be nice to have a clear line.

What if you set what you believe to be reasonable and ask him to go along with it?

healed84 · Jun 03, 2017, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

What if you set what you believe to be reasonable and ask him to go along with it?

That is a good suggestion. Thanks!

unaluna · Jun 03, 2017, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours

The going rate for customized dolls (albeit, for less nefarious purposes) is in the $130-150 range (at least based on my quick survey).

Plus, there are all of ATAT's customizing ideas to be added.

I think we are looking at raking it in, to say the least.

Moon Pie Raker - the first female James Bond movie.

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