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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:00 AM
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I'm sorry you're not doing well, BCM
We're here... And we're ready to help if we can.

I'm sorry about your laptop too. Must be annoying...Can anyone fix it?

You're not a pig. It happens to everybody
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:01 AM
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I'm still in crisis. I gave up
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:02 AM
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I'm still in crisis. I gave up


Hugs... don't give up quite yet.
How is your leg?

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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:02 AM
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I'm sorry you're not doing well, BCM
We're here... And we're ready to help if we can.

I'm sorry about your laptop too. Must be annoying...Can anyone fix it?

You're not a pig. It happens to everybody
It would be cheaper for me to get a new one or rather a refurbished one.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:03 AM
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I'm still in crisis. I gave up
Is it 9 dys til you see your t?
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:08 AM
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Hugs... don't give up quite yet.
How is your leg?

Hugs @bcm
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Is it 9 dys til you see your t?
It is. Too long
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:12 AM
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You're close to your 1000th post Demunie... How should we celebrate?
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:13 AM
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I think it's better


It is. Too long
I once had to wait 12 weeks because my T filled up his diary and I didnt think I could wait that long, it was hard but I did make it. It doenst feel like it now but I will pass.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:14 AM
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You're close to your 1000th post Demunie... How should we celebrate?


Hihi. Not in celebration mood.
Glad your leg is better - is there anything we can do to help you get out of crisis?
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:16 AM
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I once had to wait 12 weeks because my T filled up his diary and I didnt think I could wait that long, it was hard but I did make it. It doenst feel like it now but I will pass.
Whoa, 12 weeks! I wouldn't survive. I'm proud of you. Do you usually see T weekly?
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:21 AM
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Hihi. Not in celebration mood.
Glad your leg is better - is there anything we can do to help you get out of crisis?
Are you okay? Can we help you?

Dunno. I want to be sure my T is real. I miss him and worry
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:24 AM
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Dunno. I want to be sure my T is real. I miss him and worry


Hm... he was on Tv or radio, wasn't he? Would listening to them make him more real for you? 9 days is awfully long... remember when my T was on vacation last time? I barely made it then.

Nothing much you can do really. Just the usual.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:26 AM
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Whoa, 12 weeks! I wouldn't survive. I'm proud of you. Do you usually see T weekly?
I spent days just laying on my bed being empty, I dont remember moving very much, it was hard. I used to see him weekly but I got really ill and lost my job and I had to see him fortnightly or monthly. Now I am better financially I want to ask him to go weekly again.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:31 AM
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BCM, I hope you can return to weekly sessions.

Captgut, I echo demunie, how can we on the couch help? Will reminding you that T will return and is real help?

For me, it helps a bit to have transitional objects from T.

((Demunie))
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:34 AM
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Hm... he was on Tv or radio, wasn't he? Would listening to them make him more real for you? 9 days is awfully long... remember when my T was on vacation last time? I barely made it then.

Nothing much you can do really. Just the usual.
I've already survived for 12 days. 9 days to go...

Yes, i watch and and listen to it quite often. It helps... but it makes me miss him even more

I don't think he's real. It's just a video...
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:38 AM
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Hi couchies. Sorry you're not doing well, Captgut. Me either. Trying to distract myself.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:38 AM
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Hi couchies. Sorry you're not doing well, Captgut. Me either. Trying to distract myself.


Same as for capt, here if you need us...
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:48 AM
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Captgut, I echo demunie, how can we on the couch help? Will reminding you that T will return and is real help?

For me, it helps a bit to have transitional objects from T.
I don't have a transitional object...He never gave me anything.
Oh well... maybe i can try to use his medical prescriptions. There is his name... and his writing
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:49 AM
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Hi couchies. Sorry you're not doing well, Captgut. Me either. Trying to distract myself.
What are your favourite distractions?
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 04:50 AM
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I don't have a transitional object...He never gave me anything.
Oh well... maybe i can try to use his medical prescriptions. There is his name... and his writing
Maybe you can ask T to write you a note. That's my transitional object from T. It says "I care about you as a person, not just a case number", among other things.

You could ask him to write "I am real, I exist."
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 05:01 AM
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What are your favourite distractions?
Hmm interacting with others is a good one for times like these.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 05:06 AM
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I feel so comfortable and safe with you guys. I want to live here
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Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 05:09 AM
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I don't come to the couch often. It often moves so fassssst I can't keep up.
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 05:12 AM
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I don't come to the couch often. It often moves so fassssst I can't keep up.
Me too. Because it's night in my location when most of the couchies are up...
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Old Jul 19, 2017, 05:13 AM
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I feel so comfortable and safe with you guys. I want to live here


Hmm.. if teleportation were possible, we could rent a huuuge room, put maaaaany couches in there and then meet there
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I'm tired of feeling so numb
Thanks for this!
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