The Couch 148: Boby

Runcible Spoon, happy birthday!!

I'm on my lunch break, at my desk at work, wishing I was anywhere else. . .

I do too. Crocus, peek your head in if you're out there!!

Atat what the actual heck with the clubbing outfit???????

L done. I am feeling apprehensive. But organized. We have a plan. L is good at plans.
I didn't talk about how I was sad that she was going. For some reason we've never once discussed our relationship. I guess til now I've never felt the need to. Idk how we're going to terminate without doing that, though.

Had more bolognese for lunch. It's gonna be bolognese for days-e

I've spent the past hour or so looking up real estate in a country that is 6,300 miles away from me. Spouse and I loved it there and really want to retire there, but I'm all for moving now..... But I shouldn't leave until I am done with therapy so a few more years yet.

Wait, I missed this -- how old is CW (I thought she was in her 60s? Although age is just a number I know...)?

I am once again in awe of your unerring ability to pick non-boring therapists

Met with T. He asked if I felt better after I ate that day. I said yes. He said would it be inappropriate if I flicked you in the head. I said no. He said texts like that really distress him. I apologized

Got a long warm hug. He said to be gentle with myself and he'll be back on the 4th a week from tomorrow

Hi couchies,

Does anyone know if we are allowed to post mature threads in the psychotherapy forum? I could almost equally put it in the Sexual and Gender Issues forum but it's more about how t handled something related to that. Kinda nervous to post it, maybe I'll just chicken out and not post it.

t and I also walked to a thrift shop to look at games. The shop owner said there's more downstairs. I looked at T and said it's a trap. We went down there and she's like ok I'm gonna shut this door. T and I giggled bc it rly did seem like she was trapping us in this dusty shop basement

You can always put the trigger function around um whats the word explicit parts.

An when i flick people on the head, they get mad. No fair! J/k! This is so sweet!

I just made judicious use of the mute button while someone gave me their (entirely too long) (entirely not necessary) complete medical history. Of course one of my coworkers was shocked to hear my outburst because she thought I was talking to the person on the phone, which makes me wonder if I'm going to get called on the carpet. Great! Must learn to control my mouth. . .

A Spoon spoon

Haha thank you Luc <3

50s according to herself - I know this because she told me I was young and there was plenty of time, it wasn't like I was her in her 50s.

If anyone wants a non-boring therapist, just PM me your zip code and I will find one for you.

And on another note, I have been asleep all day except briefly late this morning and there is no good physical reason for this. And I would go back to sleep if it weren't for the writers' group soon. Maybe the ****-me heels snapped something in my psyche?

What does a clubbing outfit with eff me shoes look like? My therapist wears shoes that I don't understand, so am assuming they are for attracting someone, but I don't know. I liked it when she wore saddle shoes best, but those days are gone I guess.

Oh, and happy birthday, Runcible.

My T doesn't wear shoes.

...At least not while he's T-ing. I expect he wears them outside.

Sorry. Any excuse to talk about my T's feet.

Errrrrr... that's a bit weird, isn't it?

I dunno. I dunno what's weird anymore.

These are the closest I could find on the internet to her shoes last night. Basically, very high heels on shoes or boots = F me to me.

The rest of it was a white short tight skirt and a black camisole with plunging neckline. I am fairly certain there was no underwear present.

I am never going to be the last appointment of the day again.

I remember when we spoke about it, maybe the second or third session... and I decided if he wasn't going to wear his shoes then I wouldn't either. I actually can't imagine having therapy with shoes on now, that sounds rubbish.

T wears sandals. Always gives me reason to be philosophical about his black socks at least once a session

Ooooh, the ol' socks 'n' sandals combo! Very chic

@@ - I second luc's shocked faces
Ruh Roh - thanks

Last night I dreamt that my T had an apartment and I had to hang out at the apartment before the session. (He owned a large toy store next door for some reason).
I tried to snuggle with him on the couch and he recoiled saying "what if I don't want to?" and so I went for a walk and didn't come back for my session.