The Couch 148: Boby

He wiggles his toes when he doesn't know what to say. One day I'll tell him

Thanks, @@. Yes, mine wears shoes like that sometimes (at least, that's what they look like to me), but not the rest of the outfit. I try not to pay attention because it's so foreign to me.

Hmm, interesting... something about boundaries? Rejection? Sounds horrible, anyway! Were you upset about it in the dream?

Erm, wait, I'm not the only one preoccupied with my T's toe-wiggling?! That's a relief.

I'm never gonna tell him, he might stop doing it...

Ohhhhhh now I've gone all lovesick again.

FFS. I'm going to bed. Night couch.

None of my therapists have ever come close to wearing shoes like that and potential new absent-minded-professor-psychoanalyst shows no potential to do so either

Your does that too?!?
That's the reason I haven't told him yet.

Yes, I'm surprised you haven't seen me talking about it before! It's one of my favourite things about him... he wiggles his toes when he gets excited. Like, when he thinks he's onto something. It's adorable.

Sigh.

I haven't seen Duchess in a week... Now I feel sick all of a sudden, this is stupid.

If it helps any -the woman (in her 70's) (which on this at least I say have at it -I think women of any age should wear what they want) has worn shoes like this at least once and it was in the middle of the afternoon. I only noticed because we met on the stairs and I was following her and her ankle was wobbling. I also was told by another person who saw her for a period of time (an acquaintance and I found out accidentally) that the woman wears fishnet stockings. I haven't noticed because I rarely notice her clothing at all -but the idea does not surprise me.

Ahhh... Might have but forgot, sorry. Off to bed with you. Take care of your head (I'm off now too... Had to make sure my lovebirds and the budgies don't kill each other first, lol)

Hugs... when will you see her again?

In less than an hour.

Urgs! Do you want pocket riders?

It'll be okay, I just feel nervous when we aren't on our normal schedule. :/ I am just a bit frustrated at her so perhaps she should have pocket riders lol

I have a funny story re: that. One day at work I thought I pushed the mute button but actually pushed the other button that does nothing and said some comment, caller heard me and said "excuse me?" And with a very red face I quickly adlibbed that I'd responded to my coworker tripping and falling or something and luckily she bought it and laughed it off. Whew! Since then I rarely use my mute button for that kinda thing,..

Yeah I can't imagine any T wearing shoes like that. RoboT definitely doesn't.



Hello, couch! Hugs to all who need/want. Day 2 of 4 of training is complete. It was good, and my good mood from yesterday still continues. I feel like I almost have to talk to T about it at this point.

I bet if I give you my zip code you'd pull up my t haha I'm almost curious enough to try it

I would be rendered speechless if my t dressed like that. Holy f-ing cow.

The internet ate my post!

I did not think anything much about the shoes when the woman wore them other than it didn't look like she was super stable walking on them. But she had some sort of foot /leg surgery a year so ago and I thought that was the problem. I wear sneakers 99% of the time – shoes are just not something I pay that much attention to other than to think oh my goodness those look uncomfortable

I haven't started panicking about my car yet, usually that's the first thing I do, go into a complete meltdown. Maybe therapy does help somehow

Crocus says hello! ...and sends her love to the couch. That kinda thing. Yeah.

Yes I wondered cos it all occurred out of session in the dream, whether it might relate to out of session contact. I was upset and rejected. I wondered whether the toy shop represented the fact he provides for a lot of people. Not just me.

Oh wow...that was worse than I'd imagined! M...maybe it was laundry day?

My T is in her "very early 70s" (per her), and she wears pretty high heels pretty much every session. She's pretty appropriately dressed in general, think she just likes heels. Not sure how I'd react if she showed up in fishnets!