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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:11 PM
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I'll see him again on Monday. He doesn't work on Friday or I would probably call him.
You're strong enough to get through this.

Are you still at work or at home ? Could you get into bed and watch old movies to distract yourself a little bit. Maybe take a hot shower. Do you have the number of any helplines for your area?
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:13 PM
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We just got evacuated at work, no idea what's going on....
Maybe it's a practice drill. My old high school used to do them once a year xD.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:28 PM
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Nope. Managers were running around yelling this is not a drill! Go! Still don't know.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:32 PM
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(((NP))) stay safe
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 04:55 PM
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Excitement over, they let us back in....
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 05:31 PM
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informal couch poll: on a wrongness scale of 1-5 (5 being the wrongest) how wrong is it that I want to let my 11/16 session with t be the last and not go back despite that I told her I would come back to wrap things up? (a bunch of you know what I'm afraid of. I'm afraid that the crap that happened over the summer will happen again. We said goodbye-for-however-long before I took a break 3 weeks ago and it was very peaceful and nice and warm and supportive and I'm afraid of a repeat of July happening if I go back and ain't nobody gonna want me around if that happens again.)
0. Not wrong at all. It's your money, your time, your therapy and your feeling ok with it.

Why not try (without saying anything to her yet) going forward without a termination session. See how it goes. You can always change your mind. Sometimes trying on a decision like that is helpful to me.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 06:18 PM
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((NP))

Artie, did you find out what happened?
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 06:25 PM
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Artie, did you find out what happened?
Nope. Nobody's talking...
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 08:01 PM
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0. Not wrong at all. It's your money, your time, your therapy and your feeling ok with it.

Why not try (without saying anything to her yet) going forward without a termination session. See how it goes. You can always change your mind. Sometimes trying on a decision like that is helpful to me.
Thank you. Y'know I think I'm pretty much doing that already.... just hadn't realized it til you verbalized it.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 08:38 PM
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I just got email notification that they moved my husband from the intake prison to another facility. Which set off another round of tears. How did my life get to this point? Where did it all go wrong? What did I do wrong? My life is such a train wreck and I'm so tired. Tired of trying and tired of hurting.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 09:09 PM
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NP - I am sorry it is so hard.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 09:23 PM
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 09:35 PM
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 09:43 PM
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:16 PM
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Getting drunk.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:26 PM
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Getting drunk.
me too!

(8 characters)
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:30 PM
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me too!

(8 characters)
should have just added another exclamationpoint. easier..

whats your poison? my round.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:33 PM
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bourbon, always.

edit: i guess it is my round....uhhhh...i've got nothing? i am constantly intimidated by you and others' intellectual conversations in these threads.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:37 PM
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bourbon, always.

edit: i guess it is my round....uhhhh...i've got nothing? i am constantly intimidated by you and others' intellectual conversations in these threads.
right now i am finding widsom at the bottom of a wine glass in whisky dregs (no whiskey glasses)

so no need to be 8nt8midated
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:49 PM
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i'm unedumacated as all get out. i don't know what is the difference between bourbon and whiskey.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:52 PM
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i'm unedumacated as all get out. i don't know what is the difference between bourbon and whiskey.
grain and spelling

boirbon is whiskey but whiskey isnt always bourbon
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 10:58 PM
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Puncteration is also very important. Theres a big difference between saying "i want some honey whiskey" or "i want some honey, whiskey" and "i want some whiskey, honey" some of those will getcher face slapped.
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Old Dec 08, 2017, 11:16 PM
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all i know is i found my bourbon, and my two cats are cuddling with me. it could be worse i guess. one gets used to being alone.
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Old Dec 09, 2017, 12:03 AM
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My boss changed plans for today, so I didn't have to cancel T!
I would be seeing him in 20 minutes, but I have to wait 4 more days
I would be so pissed at your boss, gah! I'll be in your pocket when you see T
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Old Dec 09, 2017, 12:04 AM
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Blah... I want to see you today.

Can you pleeeeeease make me less attached? It’s awful.
Hugs. Attachment to T can be so hard and confusing, painful and awful
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