In Session Today: Part V

Lol look whose on her high horse again

Humanistic is your heart? Yet my t wasn't allowed to be human with me, maybe a career change would help everyone lol

Lt
Don't give into her crap. She's dramatic

You outed yourself. No one here would know it was you if you didn't have a tantrum

Yes, I know you have many reasons for disliking my T, I was just responding to what I had put in the post that you were reacting to. I have many reasons for liking him, and he's helping me.

ETA I deleted that section (I left something in general about friendships, but that's an overarching thing I find I do with many friends, including people from high school, and I realized it was a pattern, so I think it's acceptable to leave that in).

What do you expect to happen when you detail your therapy like an open wound in order that a bunch of morons (I include myself in that bunch) can gawp at it? People will form opinions, comment, upset you, be partial, be hurt, be hurtful: be the messy morons which we all are.

Boundaries keep things in as well as out. I think the amount of detail you provide, and the subsequent level of involvement it invites from strangers, is a good example of unboundaried interactions. I know we often disagree, but in these instances, your vulnerability is palpable and it makes me sad and uncomfortable.

I'm sorry that my openness and vulnerability make you uncomfortable. If so, then don't read my posts. I know I've benefited from other people being open and vulnerable on here and that some people like reading what I write. If people have an issue with me, I'm sorry.

Are you deliberately obtuse? Humanistic does not mean being fake friends.

Mind your business. It's between her and i. Don't say fake friends, you literally know nothing about what I'm even referring to.

You don't need to apologise, nor change how you post. Likewise, I am not interested in avoiding reading or commenting on posts because they make me uncomfortable. I was sharing my response to what I perceive as you not protecting yourself. Lots of my stuff in there of course.

Don't apologize, generally she's just rude. Take her comments like I do. Don't let them get you down. She's obviously got her own issues. I agree though. People can stop reading **** they don't like and stop commenting on things just to starr drama . There should be more support here

I enjoy commenting on your posts, as frustrating as I find you. Since this is a forum, it's anyone's business who wants to read and comment.

Of course I have my own issues, I am in therapy! What a hoot this place is.

I find you annoying lol....
But i literally don't care what you think. You don't know anything about my situation as you were not part of it
Comment all you want but i don't take any of it seriously

Hence the use of obviously. I like how your cohoart "likes" all your posts. Too funny

It's true. I'm a right cohoart I am.

That's not all you are lol

I am annoying, you are right, and you definitely shouldn't take what I say seriously. I am as loony as the next one.

It sure isn't!

LT

I would not have given in to her, you are allowed to share thst here as much as she's allowed to tell us all it was her

Aside from that, seems like a good session. I kinda get the looking in the cafe thing. It's one reason I know I can't take my dog to visit at ts old place. I know I'd look at his door looking for him.etc

Also even with my dog gone over a yr now, I still have moments where I wait for him
I think it's just a normal part of grief.

Don't let pc get you down. It can be toxic here but you are the only one who actually knows your t and how it works for you.

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