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I'm looking forward to my session with Regular T on Saturday but part of me is dreading it as well. I remember next to nothing about our previous session. I think she did some EMDR but I can't be sure. I don't think she knew I was dissociated. I don't think I realized until later either. Sometimes I can tell that I'm going into it, but other times I can't tell until I'm coming out of it. Problem is I have no idea what we talked about last time so it is hard to build on that. I know the smart thing to do would be go in and be like, I don't remember the last session at all....but am I smart enough to do that....No....
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#303
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Maybe I can talk about why people (why do I) dissociate? Pastor T says it is fear based. I don't know what I had to fear last session.
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#304
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Letting someone help you. Changing. Just for starters. (Every single therapy session I've ever had I start to fall asleep 25-35 minutes in because of #1 above. Just because you don't think you're afraid doesn't mean you aren't.) |
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#305
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Dr. T went well today. Was all stuff about my D and my being a parent. Dr. T was really supportive and saying how I’m doing as much as I can, that I can’t expect perfection. And it helped hearing that from him. He’s trying to help me with thinking about how I am as a mom. To give myself more credit. And he said he’d be honest if he didn’t think I was doing enough for her. Which I believe. So all that he said meant a lot. Felt the connection I think had been missing Monday. And he gave me a “take care” when I left.
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#306
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I'm struggling at the moment. Today's session brought a lot up.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#307
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Penny wanted to drop in and say hello!
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![]() chihirochild, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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#308
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it is getting so so hard to stick to my resolve i dont know how im feeling .maybe manipulated
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#309
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Gosh, Artie...Penny is so beautiful! Please proffer affection on my behalf.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#310
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Aw, hi, Penny!
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#311
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Did you tell her you have a new t? Did you tell her, "Its not me, its you"?
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![]() granite1, LonesomeTonight, Quietmind 2
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#312
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Zoom thing done. It wasn't a disaster once it was me and not the university in charge.
Kicking off spring break by reading first pages stories for my coming of age. We each have six, and I started with what was obviously the best and now I'm down to the two who think declaiming and dumplng all emotions on the page is writing a story. And if anyone is curious, mine's about a guy who lives in a mausoleum. |
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my husband said he had a vision of me talking to her and talking to her etc...an then the image panned out and it is me sitting in a chair in front of a grave stone with the caption "it is forever"
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Husband is thoroughly unhappy at his job and was asking me all kinds of questions about MY job - the last thing I want is him to work with me. I told him that he can work at another site.
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i told her that if i continue having issues im not against seeing another therapist and her responce was to get teary and say "you would go see another therapist and not come back to see me " i was trying to be nice and i said that i would hope that she would have retired and all and enjoying her life . her response is "i am retired and im only seeing clients i enjoy working with" im trying so hard to not hurt her feelings bucause im trying not to be a horrible mean person but she is just not accepting that i just feel it is time for us to stop . it seems like im going to end up saying i want to quit seeing you because you are loosing your mind
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She called me 3 times tuesday asking where i am thinking it was thursday. i can accept it once but to call 3 times and have the same conversation is not ok
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#317
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Although i can see where if she is not remembering well. Maybe you will have to say something like "its time" and keep repeating it. That is where a written note, thank you and goodbye, last session, might help reinforce the message? |
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT ![]() Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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#320
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#321
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Youre going to her house, right? Is somebody else there? |
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#322
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even today not 10 min after i left she called me again to check on how i am doing and to tell me she felt good about the session today and that she will need to talk about some of her feelings about my decision
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT ![]() Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT ![]() Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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for those of you who think it would be great to have a T who would call to check to see if you are ok,completely over rated. just saying
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT ![]() Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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#325
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yes i go to her house alone . i think part of the problem .she has no supervisor to answer to .im not sure but i thnk something happened with the group she rented an office from because one week she just called telling me we were going to be meeting at her house that she no longer has her office .she had nothing good to say about the person incharge of the offices .so i think they were on to her issues and maybe didnt want her practicing.i dont know
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