 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#926
May 04, 2022, 04:03 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
|
#927
May 04, 2022, 04:51 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
My mother died yesterday afternoon.
I tried not to sleep at all last night so the last day she was alive wouldn't end for me, but eventually I had to give in, if only for the 2 1/2 hours I did get. I know a lot of you didn't/don't have good mothers and/or good relationships with them, but
Possible trigger:
|
 AliceKate, ChickenNoodleSoup, ElectricManatee, GingerBee, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, NP_Complete, Polibeth, RTerroni, ScarletPimpernel, SlumberKitty, stopdog, zoiecat
|
 Quietmind 2
|
|
#928
May 04, 2022, 04:58 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
So sorry @@.
__________________
"Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
| atisketatasket
|
|
#929
May 04, 2022, 05:06 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
so very sorry @@
I know nothing will be comforting in this loss or at least not for a long time. I am sorry for the pain you are in. hugs if you would like...
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
| atisketatasket, Quietmind 2
|
|
#931
May 04, 2022, 05:10 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I'm so sorry, @@. I'm sure it was meaningful to her that you were there at the end, and that she felt your love. But I imagine that's cold comfort right now. Hugs, if wanted.
|
| SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket, unaluna
|
|
#932
May 04, 2022, 08:33 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Losing your mother is a big deal no matter how old you are.
__________________
Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
| atisketatasket, MobiusPsyche, SlumberKitty, unaluna
|
|
#933
May 04, 2022, 08:51 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I'm so sorry for your loss, @@. What you said inside the TW is, ultimately, true. It's a unique relationship. It doesn't mean you won't ever be loved again, but not in exactly that same way.
I'm here if you need me. Happy to procrastinate on grading group projects for a worthy cause. Sent from my SM-S908U using Tapatalk
__________________
"I would rather have questions that can't be answered than answers which can't be questioned." --Richard Feynman |
| SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket, Quietmind 2
|
|
#934
May 04, 2022, 09:01 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I'm sorry for your loss, atisketatasket. Words are not enough in times like these. I wish you peace.
Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk |
| SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket
|
|
#935
May 04, 2022, 09:07 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Oh, ATAT, I am so sorry. I know words are not enough at a time like this. And I am glad you got to enjoy feeling loved by your mother, and that you got to spend the last days with her.
|
| SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket, Quietmind 2, unaluna
|
|
#937
May 05, 2022, 02:33 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Sending hugs @@.
I have a session with R in about 45 minutes, and it's the kind of session where I would really appreciate pocket riders.
__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket, Quietmind 2
|
|
#938
May 05, 2022, 04:30 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I'm so sorry, atat. Hugs if wanted.
|
| SlumberKitty
|
| atisketatasket
|
|
#939
May 05, 2022, 04:30 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Hope your session went well, Lost.
|
| SlumberKitty
|
|
#940
May 05, 2022, 09:43 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
|
#941
May 05, 2022, 09:44 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I am super anxious today. I know why. But it is out of my control. I haven't taken any anti-anxiety medication yet. I am trying to manage it without it. I might give in though and take some. I could reach out to T but it is too long to text so I don't know.
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
| LonesomeTonight, unaluna
|
|
#942
May 05, 2022, 09:52 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Thanks, CNS and Kit.
I posted an update in IST. It wasn't the session I expected to have, which was in some ways a relief, but finding words to explain the impact her analogy had on me in the moment was challenging. At least I still have a therapist, which is what I was worried about.
__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel, SlumberKitty
|
| Quietmind 2
|
|
#943
May 05, 2022, 11:12 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
HUGS Lost. Be gentle with yourself my friend.
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
| LostOnTheTrail
|
|
#944
May 05, 2022, 12:25 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Thanks, Kit. I really needed that. HUGS.
__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| SlumberKitty
|
|
#945
May 05, 2022, 02:01 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Today I paid off my car!
 It felt really good to make that payment! Five years went by fast!
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
| AliceKate, LonesomeTonight, unaluna
|
| Quietmind 2
|
|
#946
May 05, 2022, 03:14 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Congratulations, Kit!
__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| SlumberKitty
|
| SlumberKitty
|
|
#947
May 05, 2022, 03:39 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
|
#948
May 05, 2022, 03:59 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
Congrats! It is a great feeling. And I hope you're feeling less anxious. |
| SlumberKitty
|
| SlumberKitty
|
|
#949
May 05, 2022, 04:11 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
I am less anxious because I took some anxiety medication. The anxiety is still in me but it's not so intense. Thanks!
__________________
Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
| LonesomeTonight
|
|
#950
May 05, 2022, 04:14 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Why are there no words for the hardest experiences life has to offer?
__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| AliceKate, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
|
| Quietmind 2
|
| Closed Thread |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
the world will be a lonelier place, no matter what the relationship was like.
Linear Mode
