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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:14 PM
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I have over 40 years of lived experience in this field, just fyi. I would be surprised if i was misinformed. Lack of understanding, maybe, but not for lack of trying.
In what field?
I am just confused
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:15 PM
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And ex-hankster seems to be having conversations with the Chinese.
I always have her as the mandarin speaker and me as the aramaic - because I love monty python more
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:17 PM
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In what field?
I am just confused
I’m guessing Bosworth Field. A horse, a horse!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:18 PM
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Or Wrigley Field - a ball a ball.
OR possibly - gum
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:22 PM
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I texted with my friend last night who was also my ex's friend. I asked if he knew how to contact the ex and if he would be okay messaging him to give his stuff back to him. He is in contact with him. Not sure how frequently. He said he's still living in a halfway house and sounds medicated. I asked if he ever expressed any remorse about the fire or asked if I was ok. Friend said it's never come up. I'm feeling pretty lousy that he's never asked the one person who could tell him about me. He screwed my life up and he doesn't even care.
If he is anything like my ex he has created for himself an entire narrative in which he is free from blame, everything is your fault, and you deserved to have your life screwed up.

It sucks, but that is the way abusers are. I know it’s painful, I’m sorry.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:23 PM
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Or Wrigley Field - a ball a ball.
OR possibly - gum
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:27 PM
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In what field?
I am just confused
Transgenderism. Or just genderism. What does it mean to be a boy or a girl. I understand what social norms are. Physical mutilation is a bridge too far for me. Drs are telling clients they can change their plumbing for them to the opposite sex. But they can't. I would prefer more attention be paid to expanding social norms. To where *I* dont get weird looks for going into the ladies bathroom.

You guys are all nuts!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:28 PM
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Field of Dreams?
I never saw more than the first 10 minutes of that film. I either fell asleep or wandered off.

I did watch a guy playing in a striped uniform last night make two great catches in the outfield - jumping up and catching the ball going over the fence on one and slumping down it with the ball in his glove. He must be new and they kept showing his dad (I think) watching the game.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:31 PM
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I would prefer more attention be paid to expanding social norms.
Didn't really get what you were on about in the first bit really but on the second bit -- helping people with the body they want and your desire =They are not mutually exclusive - both can be worthwhile
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:35 PM
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I did watch a guy playing in a striped uniform last night make two great catches in the outfield - jumping up and catching the ball going over the fence on one and slumping down it with the ball in his glove. He must be new and they kept showing his dad (I think) watching the game.
Striped = home team.

So you do watch baseball!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 01:42 PM
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I am fairly certain unsavory is not an instance of two countries divided by a common language.

It’s not like when we try to fool British tourists by calling breakfast cakes muffins.
It was only a matter of time before someone started blaming the British!!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:11 PM
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Striped = home team.

So you do watch baseball!
The hard part of being friends with others is that sometimes they want to do stuff you don't = so a bbq with friends and a tv combined - even I glanced at it a couple of times.
I like the team that uses softball team beach colors
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:14 PM
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There is some Barbie thing going on - a movie I guess. I really don't know what it is about. I saw a documentary a long time ago about Barbi and the Barbi fans - I thought it was interesting (and funny although I don't know if it was meant to be or not)
Yes it's a movie.

I have no plans to see it.

Bored of seeing Barbie everywhere, same like the Flowers song by Miley cyrus.

Papier (stationary shop) , M&S a supermarket and a hair salon I follow have all done posts about it.

Also Oppenheimer is out too. I like war movies so would prefer to see that.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:19 PM
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I like Margot Robbie so I am very torn about seeing Barbie. I, Tonya was really moving for me because I saw elements of my mother in the horror of her mother. Barbie, not so much.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:19 PM
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It was only a matter of time before someone started blaming the British!!
We started everything though .

"Taxation without representation is tyranny".

I love National treasure with Mr Cage for teaching me American history.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:44 PM
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I'm with you Artley. I wish your daughter all the best, and I hope the world becomes a different and better place for trans people.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:51 PM
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I texted with my friend last night who was also my ex's friend. I asked if he knew how to contact the ex and if he would be okay messaging him to give his stuff back to him. He is in contact with him. Not sure how frequently. He said he's still living in a halfway house and sounds medicated. I asked if he ever expressed any remorse about the fire or asked if I was ok. Friend said it's never come up. I'm feeling pretty lousy that he's never asked the one person who could tell him about me. He screwed my life up and he doesn't even care.


How much of his stuff is left at your place?

Like @@ said I agree he might have changed the narrative.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 02:56 PM
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There is some Barbie thing going on - a movie I guess. I really don't know what it is about. I saw a documentary a long time ago about Barbi and the Barbi fans - I thought it was interesting (and funny although I don't know if it was meant to be or not)
I saw something yesterday about how the theaters are selling some barbie car that can supposedly hold popcorn and barbie doll for like $65!!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:00 PM
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I am fairly certain unsavory is not an instance of two countries divided by a common language.

It’s not like when we try to fool British tourists by calling breakfast cakes muffins.
Dennis the Peasant: "You can't expect to wield supreme power just 'cause some watery tart threw a sword at you"
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:00 PM
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I saw something yesterday about how the theaters are selling some barbie car that can supposedly hold popcorn and barbie doll for like $65!!
I just found out all the hoohah is over a movie
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:11 PM
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I just found out all the hoohah is over a movie
Even the nytimes reviewed it.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:11 PM
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I saw something yesterday about how the theaters are selling some barbie car that can supposedly hold popcorn and barbie doll for like $65!!
Time to make Barbie themed knits Art!

The vintage dolls are worth a lot of money.

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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:12 PM
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Even the nytimes reviewed it.
Your Ryan Gosling is in it!
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:24 PM
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I'm with you Artley. I wish your daughter all the best, and I hope the world becomes a different and better place for trans people.
Every decent person wants the world to be a better place for all of us people. It's divisive to imply that people with gender critical views which prioritise women want trans people to suffer. This "with or against, for or opposed" partisanship is exactly the problem I was describing. Every single radical feminist or gender critical activist I know has been involved in the fight for racial equality, campaigned against homophohic policies, worked in women's centres, rape crisis services, mental health projects, brought up families, cared about humanity and social justice. I want the best for Artley's family too! AND I care that I can attend a CSA support group without male bodies in the room and that my smear test is carried out by a female nurse and that my elderly partner will be on a single sex ward at her most vulnerable and ill. I understand that biological sex does not matter to some people. I want people to respect that it matters to me and people like me.
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Old Jul 23, 2023, 03:26 PM
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Even the nytimes reviewed it.
I don't watch many movies and I generally just don't register much about them even when I read the nyt or other stuff. I will probably still be alive when it comes to some off rate channel I get and I can play it quietly in the background so the dogs will sleep - that is how I watch most things that aren't christopher guest or monty python (although that ship sailed so no new ones that I have to make sure I don't miss)

I knew about oppenheimer because there is also an opera and I thought that was what they were talking about and I was surprised that so many people were excited about some new production of it. Then I found out that was a move too
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