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Default Feb 12, 2024 at 04:39 PM
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H just left on a job to new mexico, so he'll be gone for probably 12-13 hours. He's totally acting like nothing happened yesterday.

Ugh, I hate when they act like nothing happened. My H has done that, too. I think of times when we were in marriage counseling and I wanted to talk about some fight we'd had, and H would be like, "I don't remember what it was about." While I'd be there crying about what happened.

I guess at least you get some time to yourself?
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Oh i would be tempted to change the locks and have amnesia too when he returns!
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I often forget a fight by the next day and go on. To me (not saying anyone else is like this) - it is over -why keep harping on it.

I scored 19 on the test - who would have thought.

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Default Feb 12, 2024 at 06:49 PM
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SD you old softie.

Altho a lot of those questions ARE just "get off my lawn-ism's" -- your too loud, your too shiny, your too scratchy, your too smelly.

So you guys who forget fights would not make it in The Mob - jes' sayin'. Vendetta!
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There are so many reasons I wouldn't make it in the Mob (way too much hugging and kissing and loud) - but attys have to fight when clients are around and in court and stuff but then go with the same opponent to lunch together or have meetings on other cases, or whatever etc.

I didn't check the boxes about how I know how to make others comfortable.
But the overwhelming of sound/chaos etc is where I get the score

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There are so many reasons I wouldn't make it in the Mob - but attys have to fight when clients are around and in court and stuff but then go with the same opponent to lunch together or have meetings on other cases, or whatever etc

Nitrates disagree with me, all that gabagool..
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I have had fun watching a Canadian (I think) cartoon called Fuggetabout It - a mobster's family from nyc is placed in the witness protection program in Regina, Saskatchewan.

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22. You guys are stoics! I however am a delicate flower.
A rare hothouse flower, from which comes a deadly poison that an extinct South American tribe used to rub on the tips of their war spears to slay their enemies?

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I scored 19 on the test - who would have thought.
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I am guessing we excel in different categories.

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@ Art how are you feeling?

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@ Art how are you feeling?
thanks Lemon. I'm okay. H has been surprisingly upbeat today, I think the long drive to/from new mexico yesterday helped him clear his head some. he has agreed to go see his dr about getting on medication for depression. that's a little progress.
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Without being seen to be adding fuel to the fire, but did he apologise for his behaviour?

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Without being seen to be adding fuel to the fire, but did he apologise for his behaviour?
he did. he said that he just needed to get it all out.

today is our anniversary (26 years).
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Does anybody else watched Smothered on TLC? Its about how shall we say - mothers who love too much. One former beauty queen takes a bath with her pageant teenage daughter in celery juice every morning, while they drink celery juice.

Thats the lead-in to my announcement that i just prepped another 4 bunches of celery, romaine and guac ready to go for the week. I ordered some flavored protein powders that you can add to
oatmeal, those i will try to make my cupcake ah whats the word? Fancy word for tricky
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My newest addiction is peach waffles. Belgian waffle batter with diced peaches & cinnamon added. Super yum. I made them again today for dinner; I made 3, so have leftovers.
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Does anybody else watched Smothered on TLC? Its about how shall we say - mothers who love too much. One former beauty queen takes a bath with her pageant teenage daughter in celery juice every morning, while they drink celery juice.

Thats the lead-in to my announcement that i just prepped another 4 bunches of celery, romaine and guac ready to go for the week. I ordered some flavored protein powders that you can add to
oatmeal, those i will try to make my cupcake ah whats the word? Fancy word for tricky
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Never seen it. Celery juice baths? How do you get enough celery juice to bathe in it?!

I cannot abide celery. It's a texture thing.
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I like celery juice but how much celery would it take to juice enough to bathe in? That sounds like a lot of work just for a bath

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Does anybody else watched Smothered on TLC? Its about how shall we say - mothers who love too much. One former beauty queen takes a bath with her pageant teenage daughter in celery juice every morning, while they drink celery juice.
I think that's the show where the mom and adult daughter were so enmeshed that they showered together every day. On top of whatever other cringy stuff they were doing.
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Does anybody else watched Smothered on TLC? Its about how shall we say - mothers who love too much. One former beauty queen takes a bath with her pageant teenage daughter in celery juice every morning, while they drink celery juice.

Thats the lead-in to my announcement that i just prepped another 4 bunches of celery, romaine and guac ready to go for the week. I ordered some flavored protein powders that you can add to
oatmeal, those i will try to make my cupcake ah whats the word? Fancy word for tricky
replacement.
Yikes the mother has boundary issues. Do they offer any support or is it like Kate and Jon plus 8?

I baked for the first time in my new place. I bought the pre-made just add eggs, oil and water box. It was supposed to be muffins, but they didn’t include the paper cups, so I just put it all together and it made a muffin cake.

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