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Old Sep 04, 2008, 12:52 AM
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Pink.... how you doin out there..... thinking about you. *makes Pink a cup of peppermint tea with short bread cookies... fluffs up pillows and wraps blankets around shoulders*
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 01:52 AM
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It is almost 3 am right now. The funeral will be at 12:45. We are Jewish, so it is a fairly short and simple thing. We will be at the chapel for around 20 minutes, and the Rabbi assured me that the gravesite part will only take about 5 minutes. I just want it to be over.

I am so scared for tomorrow. I don't know how badly I will fall apart, considering how badly I have taken it so far. I will speak briefly at the service. Hopefully I can't get through this.

I cannot believe my dad is going into the ground.

T has been amazing. I sat in the backyard of my parent's house today (where I would always sit with my dad) and I took T through all the memories of that backyard... told him all of the scariest, most bizarre and traumatic thoughts that went through my head when I first found out... and he just listened to it all and told me it was okay to tell him whatever I wanted.

I can't wait to be in his office again.

Once again, thank you all for your support and caring words.
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 02:10 AM
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Hmmm. I don't know why it did that...
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 04:38 AM
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((((((((((((((( pink )))))))))))))))))) I've been thinking about you a lot. I'm so glad T has been able to be there for you. Good luck today.....you'll make it.

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Old Sep 04, 2008, 05:40 AM
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Sorry for your loss Pink!
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 06:06 AM
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I will be thinking of you today. I am so glad that you have your T to help you through this hard time. We are here too.

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Old Sep 04, 2008, 06:11 AM
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My thoughts and prayers will be with you today
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 06:42 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 11:11 AM
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Also be thinking of you... it's in 45 min. at this point. *sending Benedict over to be with you* He's warm, like a lil space heater, he'll keep you warm when your heart and body feel like winter.
When austin died i had a lot of terrible traumatic thoughts - if you need to tell someone, i'm all ears. the worst thing for me was when i felt i couldn't talk to anyone about him; his life, his death, my thoughts and feelings, fears.... don't isolate yourself, k?
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 12:30 PM
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Pink...I just wanted to add my thoughts of sympathy. It's a huge loss, like two people in one. Please take care.
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Old Sep 04, 2008, 07:16 PM
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Keeping you in my thoughts. I lost my mom ten years ago My pm box is always open if you need to vent. I have no advice just know im keeping you in my thoughts,
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Old Sep 07, 2008, 09:58 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. ((((((pinksoil)))))

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Old Sep 08, 2008, 03:17 PM
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((((((Pink)))))),
I was wondering how you were doing. I'm so sorry that you are in so much pain! Know that I am thinking about you. I 'm so glad that your T is there for you! I loved it that you sat in the garden and went through memories of your Father with him. I wish I could do more. Take care of yourself.
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