Too insecure to leave a relationship - need advice

I've been with my current girlfriend with like 5 months now and it's not going all too well for me. I'm not very happy, but everytime I want to call it quits and stop calling her I start to freak out! I start feeling really depressed when I try call it quits. I can't concentrate and become very anxious. It almost feels like someone's placed a knife in my heart and I can't breath right. I'm too weak and feel I can't live without this person. I don't know what to do, PLEASE HELP.

William I wish I had some great advice for you. My own relationships are so messed up now so not sure you want my advice lol. But Im here if you need to talk. Im sorry your not happy. Do you think whatever is wrong is fixable, is she happy?

Maybe you guys could spend a little time apart and then see how things feel?

If your not happy, then you need to realize that stringing this girl along isnt good for her neither. Before you get too much into the relationship, you need to be honest with her.

Its hurting her and you if you continue this relationship. 2 years from now, you will be miserable and she will not have a clue more then likely. And then, it will be REALLY hard.

Find the strength within you to be honest, open and also firm with her. Just say (to her face) things are not working out and Im sorry.

Its ok. Move on

Ok, if you are afiad of hurting her her or pissing herr off, tell her you're gay or some other screwed up ***** like you're a meth porn addict or something that will make haul azz. If it do to a MH issue w/ you needing someone then find some friends for support till you find a new one. Yes it is hard, harder if the sex is good but you must not keep it going. I've seen friends not end it & it last for years or they mess up & have kids, then one is really screwed.

That might have sounded like I'm being an azz but I'm for real.

Hope this helps.

It sounds like you are having anxiety about all this. What is going on?

Hi William:
Yeah...i know the feeling, believe me, i have been there before, and according to some doctors, its called co-dependence, so basically, what it is, when you were growing up, were you loved as a child? were you abandoned, ignored, belittled, humiliated, made fun of, abused, neglected, left alone, punished, yelled at, critized, and all other fun things that we all went tru.. if this sounds familiar, then, welcome to the club, i am still, trying to break free from all this sickening, viscious cycles, and trust me, i know the pain and agony, my friend, unfortunately, you are not alone, we all are fighting our own demons..so good luck...bye

I don`t know if its a good idea to advice you to leave or not to leave. You know deep inside yourself what to do.

The issue is can you get access to that [art deep inside of you? I agree with jerry that you may have anxiety about it....because what you say sounds familiar to me.
Maybe you are afraid of the unknown? like you don`t know what you will do /who will you be without her? it can`t be subconscious. Just an option of course....