[mytime]

So my friend whom I barely get to see and hardly talk to in 8 years (but whom I love dearly and always have) threw me for a loop in april. Basically professed his undying love for me, apparently has been in love with me for 5 yrs. but 5yrs ago I was too young (there is 14 yrs between us) and I was engaged.
He knows me better then anyone else knows all my issues there are a few big ones. Which barely anyone knows.

So hears the thing talking for the last couple months, I have fallen head over heels for him and spend days waiting to talk to him. He lives a 4 hour drive from me so we never get to see each other, plus we are both single parents so super busy.
In the last 2 weeks I have talked to him once, this is not enough for me I want more and I feellike he isn't making time for me. His son is 13 whereas my 2 daughters are both under 3, so I feel he should be making more of an efort to be here then me there. I s this wrong.
When we talked about this he told me fate has a strange way of working things out, and why am I in a hurry. I don't want to wait I want things to progress now. Grrrrrr What do I do wait or whine??

how about waiting a respectable amount of time and then whine?
maybe he hasn't told his son about you. 13 year olds are sorta weird to talk to.....hang in there, Pat

[mytime]

what is a respectable amount of time??? If you can't tell I am impatient. besides we both agree we are happiest together, so why wait?

[MacD]

FIRST! My apologies to all of my site brothers...this isn't meant to insult....but my observation over time has been that men have different schedules and needs when it comes to communication...Like us...they want to feel that you're there for them, but their capacity for active communication is different...so my advice is not to be hurt or insulted, but to consider that his ability to juggle his parental responsibilities and his relationship with you is simply different (but no less committed)...Just a personal observation....Good Luck! grace