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Old Mar 08, 2010, 10:20 PM
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this week there was a new kid at my school. he has moved a few times so i was nice to him. i was one of the only people sticking out my hand and trying to be friendly. well now people like him and hes getting semi popular. (btw im the "class outcast", depression and stuff made me really awkward). but now he ims me and night and says we can't be friends publicly because he doesn't want it to hurt his reputation..... and i told him off and severed all ties and he's guilting me because we have a group project due in a month that i now want to do by myself. i don't want to work with him at all, but he's really guilting me hard.
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he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony

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Old Mar 08, 2010, 10:35 PM
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I think you have done the right thing. He doesn't deserve your friendship, you are a better person than he will ever be!
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 10:36 PM
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Let the guilt lay on his plate and walk away.... he does not deserve you as a friend so please do not let him take advantage of your once unconditional heart toward him.

I was very popular all through out school and I never let it go to me head... I was friends with any one and every one that was nice in return and it never mattered to me what group that hung in, how they looked or if they were up to ever one else's standards... if one of my friends didnt like it they could keep on walking.

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Old Mar 08, 2010, 10:50 PM
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Let the guilt lay on his plate and walk away.... he does not deserve you as a friend so please do not let him take advantage of your once unconditional heart toward him.

I was very popular all through out school and I never let it go to me head... I was friends with any one and every one that was nice in return and it never mattered to me what group that hung in, how they looked or if they were up to ever one else's standards... if one of my friends didnt like it they could keep on walking.

i don't tink im going to help him, he made a decision and he has to live with it right?
i used to be popular and i started arguing a lot and standing up for people who weren't popular, trying to be nice to everybody. that didn't end with me being still popular but i am kind of happier not being popular. i don't have a lot of friends but the ones i do have go to the wall for me when i need it, and i do the same for them.
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel
Like Im close to something real
I wanna find something ive wanted all along
Somewhere I belong?

he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 11:57 PM
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Old Mar 09, 2010, 09:17 PM
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he is apologizing now, should i say its ok?
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel
Like Im close to something real
I wanna find something ive wanted all along
Somewhere I belong?

he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
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Old Mar 09, 2010, 09:50 PM
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In my book (and after what he has done) an apology means nothing with out action - ask him to sit with you at lunch tomorrow during school and see what he says / does... give him three tries and see if he makes a home run or strikes out.
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Old Mar 09, 2010, 09:55 PM
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I don't know if I would accept his apology. That was very wrong of him to do you that way. You were there for him and he did you wrong. You a very caring person and you deserve a lot better! Good luck with whatever decision you make. I'm here for you either way! Hugs!
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Old Mar 09, 2010, 10:14 PM
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In my book (and after what he has done) an apology means nothing with out action - ask him to sit with you at lunch tomorrow during school and see what he says / does... give him three tries and see if he makes a home run or strikes out.

I think that Rhapsody has said it all... it has to be a real appology and showing others that he likes and is friends with you will show if he means if or not
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Old Mar 09, 2010, 10:36 PM
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thanks for the advice!
__________________
I wanna heal, I wanna feel
Like Im close to something real
I wanna find something ive wanted all along
Somewhere I belong?

he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
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