hmmm....still no luck from Internet dating....

You sound positive Marjan Just keep going that way and you will be fine. Short weekend trips alone sound like a great idea... and hey you never know you might just met some guy that is doing the same thing LOL

Thanks Belle....I'm kinda putting finding a guy away from my head....It looks like it's not happening....I don't want to be negative, but this is what it is....

The new guy has called me yesterday......He sounds so eager and keen and he wanted to meet me this week or weekend.....I said "ok"....but I don't think I would go out with him....I just don't feel it for him....He's a handsome, educated guy, but I don't have the connection with him....I don't find the conversation interesting with him....he mostly talks about girls and relationships.....I prefer a guy who talks about other stuff in the life.....economy, history, politics, math, physics......I do have my girlfriends to talk about relationship, I don't need a guy to talk about it.....hehehe

ya, I signed up for a weekend trip on September and I'm going to a long hike this Saturday.....

I think it's better I explore the world by myself rather than waiting for some guy to take me here or there....

Hi Everybody.....for those who know me here.....if you are wondering what has happened to my story....

Well....I met Brandon for three fantastic dates....I've never had such a connection with anybody this quickly....everything seemed to be right....till after the third date, he had to go to a weekend trip in Colorado....and then after that I didn't hear from him....I texted him and he replied back then I didn't contact him wishing he gets in touch....and no nothing....I could not convinced myself that he's with somebody else, but that was a best option for me to move on....This has happened couple of weeks ago.....

last week he emailed me....a long email from England....he got this contract job in England, in an island south of England for a research....and he moved there, very quickly....I know you might think he lies, but he doesn't....There is really no need to lie....plus he emailed me from his new work and I can trace him back.....thanks to internet!

His email was so sweet and leaving option for me to contact him and of course apologizing about not contacting me.....but should I be mad here? NO....I was not mad....I just met him three times.....honesty, it could be worse than this....he could have spent more time with me and leave without telling me, but he didn't....I appreciated actually.....

I emailed him back....I really like this guy, and I don't know how things will go....I really don't want to think too much....so far, I'm dealing with anxiety so much, and I can't deal with a relationship....but I'm okay to think about him time to time and not be afraid of love....and wishing him happiness and love....

He wants to come back to California for few days in September and I'm hoping to meet him.....

Isn't it odd? Me, Marjan, who is suspicious to everything and not letting anybody to fool her, now she wants to trust, something deep down inside me is telling me "he's a good person!"....and I don't even think about him to get hooked up with others.....well...there is no guarantee in life....I see my friends to be married and their husbands are cheating on them.....am I getting mature finally?

but of course, I checked him on the online dating site, I saw he was not active for two weeks, then I saw him active yesterday and he changed his location to England.....Is he looking for somebody over there? well....I was online too.....do I really want to check his status anymore? I don't think so....there is nothing that I can do about it....it just makes me upset....besides, it's possibility that he's checking on me too....hehehe....two way street!

I think I'm going to quite all this online dating for awhile....It's giving me so much headache and anxiety....that's the last thing I need in my life now....

Today, I was really relaxed, even before getting email from him....and I do appreciate this neutral feeling.....

Yes, I dated another guy from online dating....he was handsome, and had PHD, but not for me at all....I didn't feel the connection with him....first I told him, I would go out with him again, but then I changed my mind, why should I do that....i don't want anybody to do the same thing with me....he figured out and he asked me if I'm interested and I told him I didn't feel the connection....now we are kinda friend....not bad....

thanks everybody for your support here
with love
marjan

marjan this is great. he sounded like a good guy and it seemed like you did really connect with him. i'm glad you will get to see him again.

dating sites for me r just not working...I swear the users and liars find me right away... or when we seem to click- I never hear from them again...oh well nothing good comes without work...lol
-Paula

Thanks Bloom....I have no idea why I'm thinking he's a good guy....but that's my feelings and I go for it....

Happy dating Marjn. Keep having fun and the rest will take care of itself.

I know what you mean...It's really hard to get connected with these people online....In one point I found a spam guy and I reported him....I can't believe I was chatting with this loser....he had his name and family name on the yahoo chat, I googled him....I found a site dedicated to him from girls who were chatting with him and apparently he was asking money from them....even one girl said, she talked to him on the phone....he was posting a very nice photo online and playing an innocent single dad....OMG....that was crazy....I'll tell you why I got suspisious on him....when he was chatting with me, he had these pause to reply me back and he was not really answering my questions....I figured out he's chatting with multiple girls....and then I googled him....I found him....they deleted him from the site.....
I heard from guys that it's difficult for them to....they are all sort of people out there....you got to be super careful....