I'm a bad kid.

Not a bad kid. You made a mistake Miss A. You said you appolojized and that is good. Some times when we appolojize it is not excepted and ppl may or may not forgive us or just don't verbalize it but that is something we can't make happen. All we can do is try to do differently and not make the same mistake.
Hope you talk to your T about how you felt when she tried to hug you. It doesn't feel good to feel trapped or have boundaries crossed. Hope you are doing ok.
mlyn

The only reason I did it is because I was protecting myself and felt that I shouldn't be touched at all. Meaning upset in a good way. I did apologize and I won't do it again. I will try and say now. But It's not easy being the middle kid here!

My mum loves my younger brother, my dad loves his first real daugther which is my half sister and well I have no one really except super teddy, I know he's not real and I know that I'm a bit old to have a teddy bear, but I don't care. Knowing that he's the only one who listens to me and is always there. Even my cat has someone which is me to care for. Don't know what happend to my thread when I was gone. Yet alone my most saying words at home is.... "What did I do?" .... "I can't help it!" etc... I'm fed up. Can't wait to move out when I'm 16 years old. I do like my family but there's no changing the way they act towards me because I'm like this. My mum has been very emotional abuse towards me and My dad has been pshyical abuse to me. I can't stand to be near them when they hurt me and I can't help but fight back or hide. Maybe I should just let it go....
It's not like they will never know how much I wanted to talk talk to my mum with out being judge or have a caring father who doesn't critize me most of the time. Im the odd one out. The least favourite child, the one who is ungreatful for stuff. I don't deserve anything!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Miss_A}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I understand much better now.

Though I didn't know it was comming, but I guess I deserved IT...

i am a middle child....... and i can testify that being the middle child stinks.....

You're OK Miss A!



Good thoughts, M

Guess so...

Deserved what, Hun? I'm confused now. LOL

I didn't know you were a middle child mrb023077 & ozzie.

How did you cope with it??

middle child and only girl here...bad stuffs, both, in my family.

kd

I believe the term for it is Middle Child Syndrome. So there really is a term for it. Maybe that is the root of your problems hon. Still I encourage you to seek some help for the anger. See if you can find something online or talk to your T about the middle child syndrome. I know my brother has that..he rebelled big time. Hang in there hon

wel being a middle child is very hard. my parents expected more out of me than they did the other two..
I was expected to be more responsible and when i wasnt i got punished.....being a middle child is tough... not sure how i handled it.... i just did what i could to survive...

middle child syndrome

There is no such thing?

I have no one to myself at all.

I understand the expected more out of me thing

I hate the comparing to me to others....

Need a punching bag or something lol

I even try to act younger to get the attention I need. Then when I do it gets backfired with anger. I just don't belong in this family at all. blah blah blah leaving

Hi...I believe you are right in what you wrote. Why is it that many parents treat the middle child with infifference or worse?

Parenting skills don't come natural. That's why I am a big believer in parenting classes for anyone having kids. Maybe that will stem the growing tide of poor parenting in this country.

~Dottie

Miss_A, simply use your words to tell them what you need. Playing games only makes others mad.

Please go back and talk to your T. Tell him/her what you've told us here yesterday and today. If it's easier, print it out and show it to your T. You've got valid issues, Sweety!

http://www.sarini.net/archives/000242.html
http://wvwv.essortment.com/whatismiddlec_rsoe.htm
http://www.family.org/fmedia/askdrbill/a0035040.cfm

MissA I hope you find these helpful. There really is such a thing

((((((((((miss A)))))))))))))) I sooooo wish your parents could be there for you the way you need them to be!!!! You are worthy, good enough, and deserve it. Yes, you do.
I hope you choose to go on with your dreams or get some dreams to go after and grow in spite of your parents.
If you should ever leave home, please!!! please!!! have a plan in place that will help keep you safe before you do!!!!! There are way too many not so good (wolves in sheep clothing) and down right evil ppl in the world that can smell vulnerable, lost, broken, down hearted, abused children/teens in a split second. I left home at 14 without a plan and with all of the above markers. I may as well have put on a sign saying here I am come get me. Didn't need too is the sad part.
Hang in there and do something nice for you (((((((((((((miss A)))))))))).
I'm glad you are able to have your teddy with you. I had to grow up to get mine LOL!!!
love them love them and all them we have
mlyn/larks

maybe i should just drop the subject...

if you want to.