Problems Never End For Me! :(

i have mentioned about a guy in my previous threads whom i had met online and then i got emotionally attached to him over few months,and then he left me without any explanation.
i did my best last year to start living again. a new life. the one in which i wouldnt remember that guy any more. i deliberately got involved in another guy. not much.but suffecient enough to distract me from the previous guy (lets refer to him as gone-guy). this new guy lives nearby. ofcourse he didnt pay any attention towards me. i contacted him anonymously and gave him clues about myself so that he could guess who i am..hoping that he reaction wont be so aggressive. he's known as a guy with attitude among girls and he doesnt apparently date any girl. so naturally i was scared what might would be the oitcome of this. well, his reaction was almost as i expected i to be..not what i was hoping it to be. now the problem is that he knows that i like him (yeah i like this guy and also the gone-guy, i know this sounds very confusing and slutty but what can i possibly do about this?) and he doesnt care at all. he talks to a girl and i suspect that she is just more than his friend. i think she is his girl friend. he knows that i dont like this but even then he talks to her infront of me. he has told his friends about my feelings for him and they all make fun of me. i just dont know what to do!!! i went to a psychiatrist to talk about this guy and he told me to stay away from him otherwise there is a chance that i will have to suffer much more because this guy can humiliate me infront of other people. i dont know what should i do. he is very handsome and i on the other hand am simple looking.

u dont sound slutty, dont b so hard on urself. ur trying to get on nd figure out ur life.
you said

"he talks to a girl and i suspect that she is just more than his friend. i think she is his girl friend. he knows that i dont like this but even then he talks to her infront of me. he has told his friends about my feelings for him and they all make fun of me"

it seems to me tht he doesnt respect u or ur feelings. i kno it may be hard right now, but to me he doesnt seem like a good guy. u shouldnt base your feelings on his looks. what if he gets in an accident tomorrow and his face is scarred for the rest of his life? u need to find someone who loves nd respects u. dont worry, you will find ur soulmate.

"he is very handsome and i on the other hand am simple looking. "
do not judge urself, someone is looking for a beautiful person just like you. it will happen.

((((jiakhan))))

I agree with cass, don't be so self judgemental. Care a little for yourself and you may find that you don't choose men who you know will not be available to you.

There are people who become obssessed with those they know will reject them because it keeps them safe from actually having to have a relationship and so saves them from the ultimate pain.

I agree too with your pdoc to stay away form him and his mates so that you are not placed into a situation which is harmful to you. You would do better to build up your personal strength and work on yourself rather than give yourself to a situation that would hurt you...you deserve better,

Rhiannon

I agree with Cass and Rhiannon, they pretty much said it all. I wish you luck Khan

Thanx cass, rhiannon n yoshi... this guy is very much noticeable when he is around. He has such a dominating personality and i think i really like him. Or it might be just that im forcing myself into liking him so that i dont think about my past relatiönships/crushes. I dunno, i must be outta my mind!

I sent the 'gone-guy' frndshp request on facebook today simply acting on impulse.and then i went through his wall dating back to about 5 months ago. Im stalking on him! Again!!! ARGH. How would one stop stalking???

The only way i know to stop stalking someone on FB is to block the person... then you CAN"T see their profile... It worked for me for a little while (LOL have unblocked the person now)

Progress: the 'gone-guy' sent me a message on fb in which he called me names and used insulting language. I have unfriended him once again (again...bcoz i always end up adding him again) but after that i texted him on cell,demanding why he treats me like this. He hasnt replied. Im unable to get all this frm my mind!

((((jiakahn))))

hon theres millions of guys to stalkdon't let one get to you