feeling obsessed with my ex

I am about at my wits ends. My ex and I slept together twice last week. He has a girlfriend, which I did not know about. She spends everynight in his home! I only found out because his buddy dropped him off at my house and I had to take him home. He wouldn't let me pull in the driveway, so he had to tell me why. He said he wants to breakup with her and come back to me. I was thrilled with that news. Says I'm the one he desires, he cant stop thinking about me.
Well that was last Wednesday. I text him on Thursday and told him how happy I was and if he had told her yet. He didn't respond. I asked him again on Friday and I also said that I wanted to stop by on Sunday to talk about us. Saturday, I got a nasty text from him saying I'm am being to pushy and he hates that! He said he wants time and my constant pressure is pulling him away from me! I was so upset, I text him a couple of times and told him I was sorry. I also told him, I was so anxious due to him telling me he wanted me and was breaking up with the other girl. Now, my impatients has pulled him away from me and I don't know what to do about it. I love him so much and I think it's all my fault for bugging him. I just was so excited. Was I really pushy or is this yet just an excuse from him to keep me from texting so that I don't ruin things with the new GF? I am so confused and hurt.

he is playing you. plain and simple - if he wanted to be with you he would be -
sorry - you are not being too pushy - he just wants to sleep with you if you will let him and live with the GF as well as sleep with her - If he wanted to break up with her you driving into the driveway with him would have been the perfect opportunity - I hope that is not to blunt but it is obvious from someone who has been through it.

I'm really sorry kangels I hate men and yours seems to be no different to most. he was cheating on his gf with you. he isn't reliable. he's in love with whoever he is with at the time he is with them.

he doesn't want the new gf finding out about you because that would end it for her and he is the one who likes to be in control of situations. his verbal (txting) abuse makes it clear that he is uncomfortable and scared of her finding out.

I don't think he is planning to come back to you so hey, text away and use up your free texts and let him explain why he's getting so many until he has to change his number. She deserves to know what a creep she is living with, and she IS living with him if she stays over every night.

I wouldn't let him get away with it, but that is me, I'd be on the phone to the gf as soon as I could to let her know what a wanker she's living with and how he cheated with you as soon as her back was turned and I'd tell her that he said he was going to dump her and go back with you

Megan