Should I worry?

I shared a lot of my intermost secrets with someone I did not know very well. We connected instantly and it was wonderful having a new friend who seemed like someone I had known my whole life. Sadly, she betrayed my trust and told my husband everything I had shared in confidence. Beyond that, she played on his anger towards me and vulernabilities by keeping in constant contact thru phone calls and email. Wanting to see how he was that day, if he needed anything, his thoughts, his feelings, and what our future together would hold. Appearing to be a supportive and caring friend in his time of need, all the while planting more seeds of uncertainty and deciet which eventually surfaced as lies to get closer to him. Ironically she is married, but her husband is bi-curious. (from what she tells everyone) He is interested in the male genitalia as I understand it. Who knows.... I just want her to leave us alone, she is an awful person with motives and no she never paid me the $308 she owes. She will not be ignored and I am worried that this is not the last of the wicked witch. What is the best approach in dealing with someone so scarey?

I completely agree with Ozzie.

Hi, Lisa,
So sorry this has happened to you!
I would follow the advice of others here and avoid all contact with this manipulator.
Seeker

It's not about the money when you come down to it. What I still can't figure out, is how someone can be so evil and hateful but in the same breath, then turn it completely around to make me out to be the bad person, the sociopath, manipulator, I believe she called me a "lying sham". It just blows me away. And I shouldn't care I know, but I'll be honest. It bothers me how someone like her can fix her mouth to say the awful, hurtful comments that she has. Seeing it on paper puts it into perspective. Thank you for your thoughts. I agree with you wholeheartedly.

Does anyone know how to put a voo-doo curse to keep the devil away. Please advise.

I'd keep well away from her!! Tell her in an email and keep a copy!! Don't get rude or abusive or anything, lay down the facts that because she betrayed your trust etc., you no longer wish to communicate with her. If she persists warn her with getting some sort of restraining order!! I have had a similar experience and it got nasty and because i didnt keep copies of mail and texts from the cell phone i had a bit of a nightmare trying to prove my side of the saga. Take care of you!!

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Does anyone know how to put a voo-doo curse to keep the devil away. Please advise.

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PM me Nah, I just have some creative visualizations to help shield yourself from 'negativity vibes' & 'psychic vampirism' - but PM me just the same if you want them.

I had a similar situation at the end of last year when my Mother was dying of cancer. My Mothers, boyfriends daughter knew this RN that had a passion for caring for cancer patients in their homes. We got together at the daughters home & chatted for several hours about experience we had gone through. She used the information to declare herself the home care nurse & to have my Mother released from the hospital......only to get into the house (to be there when my mother was brought home), steal all the jewelry, fill in several checks to her alias & cash, steal my mothers ID, steal several credit cards, call the police to accuse me of abuse to my Mother & then OD her on morphine......I think it was to get hold of the house & all the money she could.....& wondering if the daughter wanted to get money to pay back her father for all he had done for my Mother because he wasn't in the trust.

You don't want people like that anywhere near you......get them out of your life before they can do anymore damage that what they have......People like that are dangerous in ways we have no idea of until they hit.....not thinking like a devious person, it is hard to forsee what they can possible do....but my suggestion is don't worry about the money & get away & stay away from her as far as possible....with no farther communications.

People like that are scarry beyond anything we can imagine.

Debbie

take her off your safe list on the emails, that way all and any emails from her will go straight to the junk folder, cutting ties is a very good idea

The only way for her to keep doing what she is doing is by getting a rise out of you. Otherwise it really serves no purpose for her. She can't fuel her fire if you are not willing to be the wood. Ya know. She will move on when you show her that her antics are not working. This is the best way to also make the most of the situation.

I am hopeful she is gone for good.