Why?

I'm reading through both my post and Wolfsongs post and the only thing I can think of is why..why do so many partners/spouses think that our bodies are for their pleasure regardless of our feelings? Why are there so many in similar situations? Why do so many seem to think that "no" means "wait until I'm asleep/dissociating?

I really used to believe that I was alone in this...now it breaks my heart to see that so many face the same violations...

Do they really think it is love? Do they really think it's okay?

All I have left to say is...WHY?

((((((((((Can't Stop Crying)))))))))))

My heart goes out to you and everyone else who has endured such horror and misery.

I cannot answer your questions, though I must state I too have been left aghast and astounded by the audacity of those who believe their needs or drives take priority over the basic rights of others to the point of violation.

You are already a very strong person, but I wish you further strength in the struggles you face. I also wish you eventual peace and happiness--as much as you can bear. One day, I hope you are overtaken by total joy, and I realize it's no easy road getting there.

All the best to you.

the men that do this are the lowest of the low. most men do this for power and control - they do it because they are afraid of a "real" encounter so they go for the easy kind where there wll be little to no resistance.
My heart goes out to all of you suffering through this and I hope you will hold on to the strength it takes to get through it.

...........quite worried about you CSC......please check-in.......~W~

He can only take my body...there is nothing left inside me for him to destroy...I will be okay

I just have to disagree....I think there is so much inside you that is hidden from your knowledge just now.((((((CSC))))))

I apologize for my response...having very tough time right now. But it has to get better, right?