[twofaces]

Seriously what's with this stupid attitude of expecting the girl to contact me and show me the attention all the time?

Why can't I feel self-sufficient and not pressured about getting into relationship?

This shxt is not me. If it was me, then it would never do some things to hurt myself. And this pressure is hurting me and stressing me out.

God I hate myself for not being able to stand up for myself and just not thinking about being self-sufficient. Really what's the point in demanding others internally and being whiny all the time?

[Jan1212]

Maybe you're just being careful and there's nothing wrong with pacing yourself and doing things when you are ready. It takes great effort to take that initiative and you would feel accomplished whether successful or not - you tried. Everything in life doesn't come as you expect it to be

Please don't hate yourself, you gotta take things step by step

[Leed]

Look - There's nothing wrong with being shy -- I think it's kinda sexy when a guy is shy - I REALLY DO.

It might be hard, but go ahead and approach a girl and just ask her name. Then just tell her you're kinda shy and it's hard for you to start conversations, and she'll pick up on that and help you with talking. And if it's a washout, who cares???? You HAVE to be prepared for rejection in this life. EVERYONE gets rejected. Everyone gets it at one time or another -- and some get it many times. I never had much luck, even tho I've been married twice. That doesn't mean guys were falling all over themselves trying to get to my door. HA.

You might be pleasantly surprised my friend. But you will never know until you try. God bless -- and please keep us posted? I'd really like to know!!! Take care. Hugs, Lee