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Old May 07, 2006, 08:42 AM
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I recently had just met a guy from a online dating site. we've been getting to know each other for about 2-3 weeks now. we've exchanged out personal email address and our phone numbers. i thought this was kinda odd but I wanted to know what you would think about this. as he was getting off of work which was at midnight he had called me on his way home. we talked until he got home. we were on the phone talking about about an hour and half and when he arrived home he parked his truck and simply stayed in his truck. I asked him why doesn't he want to go inside his home, relax , get out of his work clothes and then simply just call me back. He said that he was already comfortable in his truck and that he has his music playing. I just thought it was kinda odd that he simply stayed in his truck in the middle of the night for more than an hour talking to me, instead of relax in his own home to talk to me. Could it be that he has something to hide?

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Old May 07, 2006, 10:44 AM
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Actually, I might have done the same thing, so no, I don't think it's all that odd. Sometimes you don't want to interrupt a good conversation with the shuffling around to get in the house and greet dog, cat, roommate, etc...
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Old May 07, 2006, 11:11 AM
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I agree with LMO on this one. too much distraction away from someone he is into maybe? ie: dog cat just interrupting in general.
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Old May 07, 2006, 01:04 PM
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if i were talking to my friend, in my truck, and pulled up to my house. i'd stay in the truck, with music, rather than come into my house. i would be greeted, in the backyard, by four cats.....tripping me up...my light quit working back there.......then teddy jack would start barking to be let out of his yard so he could go into the house with me.....when i would opened my door, 16 legs (cats) would try to beat me into kitchen.....then fayeroe (55 lbs) and lita (jack russel terrier) would greet me.........so, i'm on his side and i totally agree with the above posters.

that is....if he's single. Would you think this would be odd? Help... online dating tips are you worried that there is someone in the house that he doesn't want to know that he's met you? can you check on his "single" status?????

i met a man 5 years ago, online, on a literary message board. poetry and such. i'm moving to Texas and he's transferring to either a Texas town or New Orleans. these things can work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! woooooooooooooooohoooooooooooooooooooooooooo. so, i'd be very optimistic and very careful. hope this helps. xoxoxo pat
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Old May 07, 2006, 03:19 PM
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I met my husband online 9 years ago and we are still together and still happy Would you think this would be odd? Help... online dating tips
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Old May 08, 2006, 03:42 AM
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I met my man on a dating site, he gave me his cell phone number and I called and we met and he is absolutely brilliant!! All the very best of luck
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Old May 08, 2006, 09:17 AM
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I agree with everyone here. He was probably just comfortable staying where he was and didn't want to try shuffling the phone and keys and everything else, or risk hanging up until settled in the house and calling back.
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