Needing an outlet

I dated this guy for A year off and on .... he cheated so we broke up but then I took him back he always seemed to lie , but over time I believe he changed into a better boyfriend, but Over time I changed too so I left him to see other people. It also didn't help that we only saw eachother once a month due to him being 2-3 hours away from me and I am not good driving interstates... so I have depend on people to drive me, so the distance killed me.

I miss him but we always fought he lied and I can't trust him , but we still talk .when I have my depression spouts he is there for me as always. He would drop anything to be there for me.... I honestly believe that. but I have started seeing this guy I use to date in High School and I really care for the current boyfriend. so I can't leave him to be with someone who Yes is there for me but in the past has cheated and lied, I told him to move on, cause I have. but he is still wanting to wait on me..

that is hard for me to hear. I just want things to be easy again.. I Love him , but not like I use to . Over time I have become more Bitter and I feel like moving on is the best option but I wish he would move on too

I can understand how frustrating it must be for you for him to not let go. Is he calling you, writing you, texting you, e-mailing you--all of the above or just some? It won't be easy, but I suggest you just ignore however he tries to get in touch. If he gets too out of hand, then you can report him for harrassment. You have moved on with your life--and it sounds like you made the right choice.

I have tried to ignore him, but its hard...w

Are you serious about ignoring him?

Not really, at least not yet. I don't know why. Its hard letting him go even as a friend

If and when you get serious, use the technology to help you - filter out emails, route calls directly to VM, etc. The technology is there for you to do the job for you.