[bellaviolet]

and you;re stupid if you think you can. no offfense but its true. everyone is the enemy. and if they actualy tell you they're your friend then you know for sure they are not. i'd rather be lonely the rest of my life than keep trying and keep getting screwed over. i'm tired of this bs. keep yourself to yourself and maybe you wont get hurt. expose it and trust me, you'll get screwed. people suck. i'm glad i have my pets becasue they don't lie and they don't screw you over and you dont have to worry if theyre sincere.

[sabby]

(((((((((((((((((((bellaviolet))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. I know what it is like to feel betrayed by someone I trusted...many times. I hope you will heal from this round of hurt and can find some peace within very soon. I hope you take good care of yourself hon.

You are in my thoughts and prayers dear one.

*Gentle Hugs*
sabby

[(JD)]

((((bellaviolet))))

I, too, am sorry that you have been so deeply hurt by people. Keep yourself safe, but realize that there are people who are safe, and can be trusted. I know many of them.

Pets are good, and I fully understand what you mean by their sincerity!

Take care. The people who have hurt you probably have big problems themselves.

[chiz]

Sometimes it feels better to talk to a stranger rather than talk to someone we know. Its not that we trust that stranger but its just that they listen and then we won't see them again. Because we hesitate to rant to someone we know, we'd rather talk to strangers. Yes they listen, sympathize, and console us. But they don't really know who we are so we feel safe about it.


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[50guy]

Bad day HUH?

[bellaviolet]

(((sabau)))

thank you....... i hope so too. and its been too many times for me too, but aint planning on trusting anyone else at this point so i should be safe from now on. anyway thanks for your words and hugs........

[bellaviolet]

(((sky)))

thanks. there are 2 people that i trust (to an extent anyway). right now i am VERY thankful for them both. and even more thankful for my pets........ cause again i know they love me and wonr screw me over.....

[bellaviolet]

chiz...... thanks. know what youre saying. everyone here at pc is a stranger but i can talk to you all....... for whatever its worth.....

[bellaviolet]

50guy........... no not a bad day....... a bad life.

[debbie_tabor]

I guess you'd have talked about it if you wanted to talk about it.... but do you want to talk about it?

I sympathise with you bellaviolet. I don't trust either. i'm 42 and only just learning to trust certain peole, it's very hard for me. There are people who are trustworthy, and there are people who aren't, I'm so sorry you fel so negative about people right now.I know what you mean about pets. I confide in mine all the time!!!!!!

hang in there sweety, you will learn who to trust in the end.

gentle hugs, jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo

[bellaviolet]

debbie...... i dont mind explaining....... last week i had a slipup with si, only the 2nd slip in over 3 months. somehow one of my coworkers (& so called "friends") caught it (i guess her kid used to si) and confronted me about it (in front of another coworker may i add). then the other day another coworker told me the other one admitted that she'd called our supervisor and told her about my si, and that i don't eat and just drink enrgy drinks all day (which is untrue, i don't eat much at work but i eat), and that they should try to replace me b/c if i pass out at work i'll be a liability to the company. so i talked to my supervisor, who said that while it made her concerned for me personally, she doesn't think its affected my work, that i'm still doing a great job, and that she will have my back no matter what. that made me feel a little better but i'm still upset about this. its a VERY small office and i have no desire to interact with this woman at all. she insists she did this out of concern for me but to try to get me fired?? how is that supposed to help me exactly?? i bust my butt at work and do a good job, and i leave my personal stuff at home whenever humanly possible. now my boss is apparently aware of this and says he's going to talk to everyone tomorrow and i;m sick to my stomach over it. i wish this whole thing had never happened but it has and i can't do anything about it. but i'll be damned if i'm going to be trusting anyone again. ain't worth it.

[bellaviolet]

(((jinny)))

thank you....... i've always had trust issues and this only makes it worse. and i've been trying real hard to come out of my shell a little more and relax and now i'm back where i started. at this point i don't even want to talk to any of my coworkers about anything. i am set to start seeing a t in about 3 weeks so i hope to be able to work on this stuff....... but right now i'm feeling pretty negative about people in general and this person in particular...... and of course, as usual, myself.

[meander]

((((bella))))

it's good your boss has your back but it's a pity about your coworkers.. hope the t meeting goes well

[debbie_tabor]

Crap! Good for your supervisor for having common sense and being supportive. It sounds like at least one of your co-workers is looking out for you - telling you about the one who went to the supervisor. There are crap people out there, but that doesn't apply to everyone, it's a matter of finding out who the crap ones are and not having too much to do with them. I hope this all blows over quickly. It's a shame it's a small office and you may have to talk to this person who said you might pass out at work.

[Colorsoftherainbow]

I cant trust anyone, anymore. I think trust has to be earned. No one has earned my trust yet. but I hope someone will.

[hamster-bamster]

Bella,

Your supervisor is being a Mensch.

Your coworker who did what she did, trying to get you fired under the guise of "helping" you, was being a jerk.

Her behavior, and especially that part about her trying to "help" you, is indeed aggravating, but look - your supervisor is being a Mensch.

Why did you draw that conclusion about not trusting ANYBODY if you saw, for yourself, that your supervisor is a good person?

[manwithnofriends]

The OP hasn't posted since 2011...

And yes, I don't trust anyone but my mother.

Hah! You are one of the lucky ones. My mother is the devil disguised as a human being that gives an eff.

Originally Posted by manwithnofriends

The OP hasn't posted since 2011...

And yes, I don't trust anyone but my mother.

[Carmelbythesea]

Long story but my family member stole from my business multiple times and its nasty to actually witness it in front of your face.

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