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I moved yesterday. I really moved a lot of stuff. I need to go back and clean today. Bummer. I will try to make it good for next people. Some nice people helped me move. I just don't want to act codependant. I really am worried about that,. James likes me and I don't want much to happen, just live and let live. Not fast pased stuff. I can't handle relationships right now. I moved because I had to. I dropped classes because of a breakdown. I can't indulge in love relationship right now, it wouldn;'t be fair of James to expect anything. Help need support

Moving is such hard work and can be traumatic in itself. I just moved recently, and it was truly the hardest thing I had ever done in my life! This, combined with emotional trauma, well, what can one say, but that you are brave and strong for doing it! Good that you had friends to help you in the transition, but you are wise to steer clear of emotional involvement if you are still feeling fragile and not ready. You are wise to recognize this. Give yourself time and be kind to yourself.
Love,
Patty

I know how you feel. Moving is always alot of work and you have to give yourself time to adjust. Just to cheer you up!! I have moved 16 times and I'm still alive!!

I totally agree with Seeker. Great advice!

((((Razeljenny)))) it si so stressful, I moved across the country a year ago, and let me tell you, i had the worst breakdowns since then, but what can we do.
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Hi Jenn,

It sounds like you are doing the right thing. It's good you realize that you aren't ready for a relationship, at least, just yet and James should respect you for that.

I hope your move will be the thing that helps you get through your breakdown and I hope you can eventually continue classes.

Best of luck to you!!

Linda