My poor father

I realize that I can be unbearable at times, dometimes becuz I'm sick and sometimes just cuz. Woke this morn with him yrlling at me re: my spending ventures and stupid me have asked him to be my payee. I truly need an allowance- have probably spent tens of thousands in the last year and half to banks ect..., whoops! I'm scared this will give him a heart attack if I don't quickly build my self=esteem and listen to my instincts and say thank you but No thank you.

Sorry for gripping, but any of you had to have a payee?

While - NO - I have not had to have a payee, but I would like to suggest.... that maybe it is time to name another person as your payee if you honestly feel that it is too much for your father to handle, not to mention that having someone else help you here will (and can) help ease the stress on the father daughter relationship that is so important to a girl.

> > > > > > What do YOU think about that ideal?

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

HI Leilee,

I totally agree with Rhapsody! It sounds like it's time to find someone else that can be your payee! There is just too much stress otherwise.

Is there anyone else that could do what he is doing that you trust? I hope everything will work out for you!!

Linda