lost and confused

i was a little hasty about the *****ing. really the *****ing was holiday related. she had big plans and when her family mostly her mother didnt want to go along with the plans she got really *****y.

as for wanting to leave i want to get away from everything and wanted her to go with me. try a new state just get away from the same old crap we deal with everyday but she wants to stay here for our son's school. which is ok but everyone moves around and has to get use to new places things and schools when we were kids. hell most of the time when i got moved around as a child it worked out for the better.

if i did leave my wife i wouldnt leave with her sister i would just leave with me but then i think about my son growing up without a father and i know thats sucks. but i still want to pick up and move along with or without my wife

have you ever thought of a mens retreat, if you belong to a church check and see if they have a retreat and go, then when you get back you may feel differently
tc

just because a couple divorces does not mean the father or mother has to be out of a child's life. after all it took 2 to make the child and 2 to raise it whether together or apart.

Dear Lost -- I like Angie's idea of going on a getaway to get a different perspective on things. The geographic "cure" rarely turns out to be the fresh start one envisions. I'm sure you've heard the saying -- Wherever you go, there you are. Before taking off for a fresh start, it might help to do some clear thinking about exactly what it is you want to leave behind and what you hope to find. That might happen on a retreat or time out or with a counselor.