[sdmale]

I met this wonderful woman (married, 2 kids, living with her husband) 4 years ago, we instantly felt in love, we have been seen each other quite frequently ever since. We have a great relationship, we get along just fantastic, we have an excelent communication; but my problem is that she went into my email account and found some information about me and some profiles that I had filed out a long time ago in order for me to get into some chat rooms, the bottom line is that she broke up with me. She wont answer my calls, will nor respond to my emails and she is shelter in her house where she knows I am not going to look for her. I love her to pieces, and I know she does too. I want us to be toguether, I do not how to get her back. I know I misled her but i never cheated on her, I always dedicated my time and effort to cherish what we had. I am desperate, it hurts me so much that after 4 years she simply walks out .... help me please!

[amandaheelen]

Face it dude. In a world where fidelity means nothing, you got lucky several times. She's clearly not interested. I can only speculate on your situation but I think she and her husband may have been having problems during the time that you were with her and when she found out what she did, she realized she needed to be with him instead of you. she may have fallen in love with him all over again. my advice to you is to find someone who is unattatched and interested. because if you contiune to consort with married women, you'll always be second fiddle instead of the king. And wouldn't you rather be able to stay in bed with your sweetheart isntead of ducking into the closet at every noise?