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May 12, 2014, 12:44 PM
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 As Always:"This Too, Shall Pass" Last edited by kipper-bang; May 12, 2014 at 03:29 PM. |
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May 12, 2014, 01:16 PM
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I really don't think he will change, because he shows no inclination to do so. He also hoards stuff evidently and that doesn't go away without some counseling. As Oprah Winfrey says "when they show you who they are believe them." Unless you like doing all the work with no help, I would leave and not invest anymore in this relationship.
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May 12, 2014, 01:45 PM
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I have to agree with Gayle....and I commend you for trying to 'fix' the situation, but unless being an unpaid servant and cook (without the convenience of a stove) is your idea of a committed, loving relationship, than I'm afraid you need to make the decision to leave.
It's sad, but truly, it's better to find out now, than to completely clean the place (which may take years, by the sound of his disorder--hoarding is a serious issue, and as said above, takes in depth counseling to get well) only to find out your relationship has become a 'job'...without pay, and without recognition, and without love. Take care 
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