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Jun 11, 2014, 06:54 AM
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*boyfriend with unhealthy obsessions about a celebrityI have a boyfriend and we only started dating recently but I found out he has a really unhealthy obsession with Justin Bieber. He watches the believe movie every day almost, he dresses like him, has his hair cut like him and hes now getting the exact same tattoos. He has wild mood swings and I dont know how to handle it or help him. Please help me!
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Jun 11, 2014, 10:05 AM
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If you're asking for help with how to deal with this yourself, that's a different thing. you need to learn to either accept the way he is, or move on. Nothing in anything you've said tells me he's doing anything *to* you at all or should this affect you directly other than you think it's an odd behavior, which I agree with but is it really hurting you? If so, how? |
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Jun 11, 2014, 02:23 PM
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I might add you said you only started dating recently and obviously have a 'working' knowledge of justin bieber---he has tattoos???---and you never noticed the hair cut???
That said, unless justin bieber himself creeps you out (again you saw the haircut coming, so evidently it didn't creep you out enough not to date this guy), in which I'd say just walk away....then if he looks anything like bieber, and can sing...you might want to get behind his obsession. There is quite the calling for impersonators. Of course, JB is having a few public relations issues at the moment so best your bf put that off for a bit. hehe
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Jun 11, 2014, 03:40 PM
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Jun 11, 2014, 04:34 PM
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Jun 12, 2014, 02:17 PM
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Eh, run. Unless he is really young this sort of emulation of celebrity is not healthy (really.... tattoos?).
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Jun 12, 2014, 11:21 PM
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Jun 12, 2014, 11:26 PM
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Jun 13, 2014, 12:25 AM
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I think most are missing the fact that he might possibly have a mental disorder (bipolar?) and just advise the OP to ditch him. (Compassion, anyone?) I'm not sure if there is much of anything you can do to help him until he realizes he has a problem and he wants help. Unfortunately, for many, this means that he will have to hit rock bottom on his own.
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Jun 13, 2014, 09:00 AM
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Also another thought is maybe you should take a break. let him get a grip on his issue, get help and then come back together to see if it's worth pursuing. It may even help him to have the motivation to get the help he needs. In any case the way it's going if it's that much of a burden on the relationship, it's not going to get better without him doing something. |
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