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Apr 07, 2007, 04:12 PM
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We love each other. I have no question about that. But, we just don't know HOW to love each other.
The longer our relationship goes on, the worse I feel, and the worse he feels. Neither of us knows how to get past this. When should I just let go and let him have the opportunity to have a better life with someone else? Altered State
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Apr 07, 2007, 07:13 PM
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Apr 07, 2007, 07:53 PM
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Have you considered couples counseling?
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Apr 07, 2007, 07:53 PM
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Sorry you are feeling so down. I hope things work out.
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Apr 07, 2007, 10:08 PM
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Apr 07, 2007, 11:25 PM
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<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>
YOU let GO.................... when the HURT is more than the LOVE - with out HOPE. |
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Apr 08, 2007, 03:00 AM
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um, if yur asking q's like this, it's probably time to let go.
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Apr 08, 2007, 12:36 PM
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Good point!
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Apr 08, 2007, 12:52 PM
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(((((((((((((((( AlteredState )))))))))))))
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Apr 08, 2007, 01:00 PM
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That's so funny! No, I haven't!
 I'm sure he would go - maybe - I don't know! But if I asked, he damn well better! If he can do it for the ex, he can certainly do it for me! I guess I am just so sick of counselling, especially since it has not helped me much lately (been soured a bit on counselling - NOT the counsellors - just the types of therapies...) I guess it comes down to whether or not I (and/or he) actually want to fight for this relationship. I don't ever get that vibe from him. You see, his is comfortable with "things as they are." He is not one to chase. Nor does he ever show humility. Granted, I am, in no way, easy to get along with, but I get the feeling that it really doesn't matter whether I am there or not. I can't even tell if this is my illness talking or what? I can't tell what is what anymore. I'm sure he has feelings....guys DO have feelings, right? Oh, let's face it, I am just shooting myself in the foot here! 
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Apr 08, 2007, 08:30 PM
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when I said this kind of stuff, I was ready to let go. Think of it like this, if you 2 are ment to be together, nothing will stop you 2 from comming together anyways. My best friend broke up with her bf for 6 months, and then they got back together..........and have been happily reunited for 2 1/2 yrs. so yea.........
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