Newlywed, Hubby kiss my buttock (butt cheek), he weird?

Of course. I don't care about price of the rings. I don't own expensive stuff.

I just repeated whAt you said that he bought cheap couple rings instead of proposing and getting married. It seemed matter to you since you posted about it. It wouldn't matter to me.

I don't even know what couple rings are. You are the one who said it. And you were the one upset with how he does things not me. I am just surprised it is you. Would never guess

He sure seems plenty romantic to me on this thread don't know why you say he is not

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He didn't change, he is the same guy that I know all these years.

When a man said: “Baby. If you want, we can go register for marriage tomorrow”….. --- To you this might not be a proposal, but to others it might be okay.
My husband sure is not romantic, he didn't get down on his knee to propose to me, there was no official proposal. So he is NOT romantic.

A man doesn't need to say "would you marry me" in order to be a proposal. To YOU it might not be an proposal, but to him it might be.
And don't put words in my mouth, NEVER in my thread I say the word CHEAP ring, that is YOUR words.

Forget the proposal, we got married anyways. City Hall/Courthouse ceremony is still an official marriage by laws.
There couples out there don't need proposal, they just talk about marriage and go tied the knot.

btw, we have the marriage talk since December last year. He just never officially propose.
But he sure keep asking the same questions: “Baby. If you want, we can go register for marriage tomorrow”….. take that as a proposal or not is up to you.

Sure. You were the one upset about it. For me it would be great, I am not particular about formalities, It is all good In my books.
Don't get upset what matters if he is a good husband and you get along nothing else matters. You seem to get upset over many things like first no proposal then him kissing certain way etc just relax, he sounds like a good guy!

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And to "Christina",
btw, the old thread about my husband have childhood friends that do drugs. Well those are his childhood friends only. I'm NOT married to his childhood friends, I'm married to HIM.

My husband is a local truck driver. In order to be a truck driver, truck companies required: No DUI, No DOT violations, passed all DOT physical and dress test. No positive drugs or alcohol test, passed all criminal and background check.

Being a truck driver, I can be sure that he is drug-free, and clean Criminal records. Truck company are very strict on random drugs test, and background check before they hire someone.
Hubby works 12-14 hours shift everyday, he got no time to do anything else beside eat, shower and sleep, and next day work again. He doesn't have time for those childhood buddies of his.

My husband kiss me on my bottom before, but not often. NOW we married, it like everyday whenever he have a chance when he get home.

He is not a romantic guy. He is not the type of guy that talks alot about his inner feelings. He more of the 'actions' type, than the 'words' type, when he say something, he do it.
Just like he never officially propose to me, he just like heck let's go get married.

And I decided to get married at the Courthouse. Nobody on my side of the family is coming anyways, so no point of making it a wedding.
Who the heck would still have the mind to have a wedding, when nobody on their side of the family going to show up? I know my parents won't show up. I know they dislike my husband. My parents never approve this relationship anyways.

http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-f...f2c19b070.html

This was my thread regarding my City Hall/Courthouse wedding ceremony, you can read it if you like.

And to answered your question. Get married at a City Hall/Courthouse is very easy. You can do it tomorow if you want. There are 7 branches locations of CityHall/Courthouse here in Los Angeles county to get married.

I sure tied the knot, quick and simple way. No need planning, no headache, there was no wedding ceremony, there was no honeymoon. My husband was back to his job working the next day. He works 12-14 hours everyday, you think he have the mind to plan a wedding?
None of us want a wedding anyways, under our circumstances, no wedding needed.

yeah, I have a messed up childhood life. As an adult, I didn't have a wedding ceremony, I didn't have engagement ring, I didn't have a honeymoon. But I married the guy I love, that was all matter.

And husband sure is not romantic, he didn't get down on his knee to propose to me. He didn't even say the official words of "would you marry me'.
There was NO official proposal. There was no engagement, there was no engagement ring.
So he is NOT romantic.

There's different ways of being romantic. The way that he treats you physically is how he demonstrates romance.

If you don't like him kissing your butt, stop leaving it so exposed where he can kiss it. Or you could simply communicate to him that you aren't so keen on having your butt kissed.

All I really asked was .. Did he kiss your buttock prior to your marriage or was this something he just started to do out of the blue once you were married and it was a shock to you..

There are many women that have married a man and then he suddenly acts different... and it can be scarey for some women when a person suddenly starts doing something new and it feels odd.

If you are okay with him kissing you this way , then good ! Enjoy having a husband that shows affection in that way.

He sounds romantic to me. There is more to romance than a proposal. Weddings are not a big deal either. Just one day really. My daughter got married last year, they did town hall wedding too. We did have reception and they went on honeymoon but there wasn't any church wedding. They aren't of same religion (his is really non existent As he doesn't practice and conversion to hers is just way too complicated )and couldn't find anyone to do mixed religion ceremony. Town hall was good enough.

As long as marriage works nothing else matters

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I don't know how to quote a reply, but to "A_Red_Panda",
No, my butt was not exposed naked, Lol! There are times when he kiss my butt naked. BUT even when I have Underwear or Jeans on, he still kiss it.

He does Not spank my butt, Not even light spanking. He does Not do kinky stuff to my butt. None of us are into kinky stuff. He just simply put his lips on my butt cheek and kiss. I think it become a routine now, he been doing this everyday eversince we got married since Februrary 6th last month.

He kiss my butt cheek when he was my BF, but that was like once in a while. Now is like EVERYDAY, whenever he have the chance, whenever he's home.
I guess alot of affection washing all over me at once, I'm overwhelmed, I'm just NOT used to it. Considering I grew up in a COLD family that does not show affection, now too much affection it just overwhelmed me.

My husband been working alot. He gonna be working this till the end of the year, we trying to save up money fast as we can for a house down-payment.
So the other day, on Friday, he had half a day off. I was so happy. I told him I want to go see a movie. It been sooo long since last time we go see a movie in theater together. I miss our dating days back then, I’m thrilled!! That I to go to the movie with him.

So I get THRILLED, Over-Thrilled!! That I to go to movie with hubby. But then when I lay in bed and he would kiss my butt cheek. And I get awkward, I don’t feel any thrilled at all. What is wrong? I’m NOT thrilled that my hubby put his lips on my butt and give it a kiss, BUT then I get OVER-THRILLED when I went see movie with him? WTH!!
You see, obvious his ‘Physical touch’ love language is not my style. Kissing won’t turn me on, but go to the movie will! I don't know what is wrong with me, we like speaking two difference love languages.

He working 2 jobs, labor physical jobs too, so he sure is tired. After work, all he have time for is eat, shower and sleep. Seeing how tired he is but still affectionate to me, I don't know how to open my mouth and mentioned to him about the 'butt cheek kiss".
I just think I need more time to get used to it. If this is how he gonna feel love by his wife then I guess I just have to let him do it.

He sounds like a great catch to me! Welcome to Western Culture. Relax and enjoy your affectionate husband. You need more of him and less of "mom."

Less of mom lol enough said

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