Relationship (breakup)

Rcat you are correct about hook up apps. It's the same everywhere. Also agree about meet up great place to meet new friends

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Hello all alot of things happened the last month , just this past weekend i was on lunch at work and what do you know she pops in never talked to her in a month as she ignored me , she there talking about how to get rid of her bf saying to me hes nothing but a crack head .. im thinking to myself do what u did to me ! DUH .. but i didnt because i didnt want to be rude .. i go along talking to her , shes telling me her whole life story talking to me like im her best friend and at the same time im just thinking in my head she not know what she did to me ? .. so i ask how school is going and how the kids are doing and she said they are good and she tells me that they are asking where you are .. i was like ahh .. so the hour goes by she there says hi to me now .. she then broke up with her bf and then she tries to add me back on facebook! i was like hmm what do i do give her a second chance or is she just playing the both of us ? ., friends are saying let her go . .

Oh please stir away

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She's not playing you, but she is legitimately dangerous. She lacks the awareness to understand how damaging she is being to you and others. She's a walking trainwreck and will wreck you as well. For your own good, disengage from this woman. She will run you over and not even know she did it. Her issues are too complicated for an average person to deal with, she needs a therapist and a sense of mature responsibility.

That whole "the kids are wondering where you are" is a classic manipulative bait move. Hope you see this in a skeptical light and don't allow your feelings to influence your responses, OP.

Re-read all your posts in this particular thread, then ask yourself if you'd really like to repeat this whole process...

YA this is exactly what i was thinking . to bad the way things turned out .

Hello all sorry for such a late reply , but she still tries to talk to me , even with her boyfriend (same person) before , I still dont think he knows that we were together but i see her at work all the time she is always trying to talk to me and such and i try my best to just ignore her .. She always stares at me when im working to , i still feel very emotional some days more then others .. just different i guess .