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Jun 27, 2007, 04:03 PM
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Jun 27, 2007, 04:17 PM
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I should add here that knowing women who "have it all"...the big diamonds, the big houses, the fancy cars...I don't want to be one of them...realliy don't! Just curious what's the difference in them and me! I realize I have nothing in common with them....never have! and don't want to! At the same time, why have I not found someone who values my caring nature instead of taking advantage of it!?
Patty 
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Jun 27, 2007, 05:29 PM
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Why can't we have anything in common? There's no difference between you and me. The outer trappings and thats all they are, don't block the pain - problems - and other issues we all have to go through. He may shower me with gift's but that doesn't mean he cares.
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Jun 27, 2007, 08:29 PM
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patty, patty, patty, i had all of that.......cruises on private yachts, rentals in the Caribbean, trips all over the world, designer clothes, a ranch, BMWs, diamonds and emeralds....and guess what???? it didn'st mean ****......i'm happier now on my monthly pittance than i was with $10k to spend......i'm my own person now, i had to be his cheerleader then.....i got too old for pompoms.......love, pat
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Jun 28, 2007, 11:16 AM
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Patty, I'm another who never had a chance to have it all . . . whatever that is . . . I'm pretty sure it's not diamonds, though.
Hugs and hugs and hugs. Time to have a real party and celebrate being US!   
__________________
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Jun 28, 2007, 02:54 PM
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Hi, friends,
I had posted a long "whine" about my seeming failures in relationships, and then deleted it, so the post script of my adding the difference in me and women in "successful" relationships was just an afterthought! But thanks for responding! The thing i had stated which stands out to me as I view my history with more and more clarity is that I lack self-confidence and self-esteem, and that has played into the poor choices I've made in relationships. Patty |
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Jun 28, 2007, 04:08 PM
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patty, dear, i think you blame yourself too much for your past. you were doing the best you could, at the time.......give yourself a big break and think about how creative you are and what a beautiful friend you are.........xoxoxo pat
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Jun 28, 2007, 04:15 PM
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Pat, you're such a sweetie and a true friend (I actualliy wish you WERE moving to WV! NEAR me!) LOL!
Yes, things are pretty good for me now, mainly though because I have abstained from dating! Patty |
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