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Old Mar 03, 2016, 06:03 AM
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I am not saying she needs to find a nice man. I am the last person to insist woman needs a man. I am just saying that if she DOES look for a man in any capacity it might be easy if you are not married. ( some men would worry getting into troublesome situation with somebody else's husband). It is just my opinion. And my knowledge of men. I had too many lol

We don't have to agree.

Yes they do have marriage contract as a legal paperwork. I referred to lack of contract re open marriage if he is not aware.

But again that's what I think. You can think otherwise. That's how forums are

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Old Mar 03, 2016, 07:18 AM
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Hi healing for me & Devine.
I'm just a dog. Some people know I'm married. Some don't only because they've never asked me.

Funny thing is the few times I felt any love or comfort from husband is when someone else broke my heart. Just going to him. He sometimes knows people I've been friends with, like the guy who just died.
A long time ago when I was living with someone, people would say you'll only find a great guy when you live alone. Same rhetoric.

What a bunch of crap. I had a person to go with if I desired for 34 years.
He could still be in the picture , but has suffered many financial set backs and is jealous because I have some financial success.

Relationships are more complex than if you are single, living w someone or married.

Even though my husband is asexual ( if that means he never desires sex)
That's not a reason to leave him. We have 20 years of building a life together.
Plus a lot of people don't know I'm bipolar. And I don't want them to know.
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Old Mar 03, 2016, 11:29 AM
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I am not saying you can't find someone if you are married but I am not sure how nice and decent these people are. The guy that is jealous of your success sounds like a loser. What kind of people are jealous of others success. or the loser who called your dress a Moo moo. They don't sound like awesome people to me. Depends what you are looking for. But of course you can meet men.

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Old Mar 03, 2016, 12:44 PM
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My husband is the most handsome man I've ever met. He could be on the cover of GQ magazine. Except his girlfriend doesn't like long hair. Every 2-3 yrs he gets 10 inches cut off which we donate to Locks for Love.
I guess none of you read the part where I explain that he's been in a relationship with his ex-wife's sister since his first marriage.

I don't ask him what they talk about or do. Sometimes he will say, oh I lowered the seat on your bike because she and I went bike riding. Or, we found this great restaurant in West LA. ( I can't always go to restaurants because of bipolar symptoms or being too frugal.
So she cut over 16" of his hair off. I don't like the way it looks and told him so. He looks like he has a girls page boy cut.

But I do not interfere or expect any explanations. He tells me what he wants to tell me.
I doubt if they're having sex, because of how he is, but I do know about an experience they had while he was married to her sister, because he told me when we were going out.

I don't care what he wants to do. Let him be happy.
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Old Mar 03, 2016, 06:51 PM
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If I was going to eml hair back mo mo guy.
I'd say. Hi. I kinda miss hearing from you. I started taking my dog to the beach and she's learning to swim. I forgot to give you a Costa Rican
Treat.
Hope you still have the Lamborghini when I bring you your swim suit in May.
Thanks you guys. I'm not going to write this eml.
But this is what I'd say.
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