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Since you're from England as well, I kinda get you on a more personal level having experienced these kind of women myself as they are common. I don't do well with making female friends unless they're autistic or a lesbian/bi, when I do find a female friend who is of sound mind I CLING on to them. Usually women with open minds tend to stay friends with me - as another woman. I don't do well with your regular kinda off the street people because the mindset our society has is horrible.
I really get bored because they all want to compete with each other and hang out in those boring meat market clubs where everyone is the fecking same and spends £120 on a tshirt to show off how much money they don't actually have, and the music is crap mainstream trash people only like cause everyone else likes it. The women who hang out in there are literally only in there to try and get a rich guy for example. That is soooo common of those places. If THAT is the woman you are going for and hanging out with, honestly, no wonder you are having problems. They are incredibly self centered and it seems to be a common 'trend' of how women over here are. I really hate the way our society tells us to be so selfish and find a rich man and exploit him for his money with sex etc. It's so toxic. Girls here are literally brainwashed to do that from an early age. If I was in your situation I would just try to find female friends, maybe even make friends with a lesbian, having a gay guy friend kinda helped me see things from a blokes perspective. And really don't hate women just because you keep bumping into muppets. Not all women are the same, but if you're seeking women from a bad environment you're bound to run into problems. And no, don't even say you have money, gold diggers will SWARM you to no end. To be quite honest - as a new director of a company I can see how the working world is kinda just full of psychopaths and sociopaths, everyone is manipulating someone for something and it's so disgusting and wrong. This behaviour just plays over to personal life and it's no different. All I can say is hang in there and I hope you find a decent person sooner or later, think of it more like there's some diamonds lost in a mountain sized heap of shite. ![]()
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sounds like she is looking to fulfill the void with you that was created by that other guy she was seeing. sorry, she did that to you. not all women are like that, just the superficial ones. I know you said that she's not that great looking, etc. so it doesn't make sense.. but it's how women carry themselves that define that behavior. if she's always been told "yes" by men, or she was brought up to babe everything by family- they spoiled her.. that's the product you get.
I used to work at a law office and this 45 year old blonde lady came in (to resolve a botched divorce) very pretentious and disrespectful. well, she didn't get away with that with me and I had to cut her down to size . ... and one day. she was sitting there and got mad bc the attorney didn't come out right away.. so she called her "daddy" and complained over the phone... her "daddy" Called a few minutes later. I had to confront her about her attitude, both of them.... she never changed. it's just engrained. right there in a nutshell with one word "daddy"... I figured out... daddy issues. what the hell is a 45 year old lady saying "daddy" in a high pitched cheerleader voice, to her 84 year old father ? flippin weird. maybe that's what is up with this girl.. shes selfish. |
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It's all right. I'm a woman, and... I wouldn't say I "hate" women, but I don't care much for them either. I get along better with men and prefer their company.
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The ladies in your vollunteer group definately sound bossy and self righteous, but most likely not all of them are. Many a few and possibly just one.... whoever was the head of the commitee or organizer. You will encounter these types in both genders and all walks of life. They are bullies. But they justify their need for control and adoration by their good deeds. But a true good deed is a selfless act. These ppl may fool some, but they are not really acting out of love and concern for others. Their actions are to boost their own self image generally deeply rooted in insecurities that they may not even be able to reconize. Idk. Just my experience.
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The devil whispered in my ear, "You cannot withstand the storm." I whispered back, "I am the storm." ![]() |
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