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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
It's not so much about the money here...
Possibly your thoughts about what's "okay" in a relationship are skewed...of course they would be if you are not exposed to a good one. Anyone's would be as we learn from what we see around us.
There should be honesty and openness. There are not lies. There is not stealing by either person. There should be communication, not a battle for control by withholding information.
Every couple has their problems. It's HOW they are fixed that makes things good. Is counseling an option?
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Although our relationship has obvious issues, we are able to be honest about other things. Money will always be an issue with us. He refuses to go to counseling. I plan to go to this free counseling place soon and hopefully they can help me deal with some of my relationship issues and some personal ones as well.