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#51
Jun 17, 2016, 02:38 PM
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You keep saying he is this or that but you don't really know who and what he/she is. Could be inmate. They have access to Internet and have plenty of time on their hand.
Those pleasant attractive features could belong to someone he stole the picture from Do you know that scammers and criminals steal picture of pleasantly looking trustworthy people of hacked Facebook accounts and these people also are victims of scam/ identity theft? This pleasant looking man might be a victim as well as his picture was likely stolen. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#52
Jun 17, 2016, 02:41 PM
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Could very well be a hacked facebook account. Do inmates have Internet access? I didn't know that. This is giving me a lot to think about now.... |
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#53
Jun 17, 2016, 02:54 PM
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You guys are going to think I'm even weirder now...
But there is a serial killer/rapist from his hometown he seems to admire. He claims the police picked him up and interrogated him as a potential suspect for this killer's crimes (but then let him go for lack of evidence) before the actual killer was caught and convicted and sentenced to life in prison. He also lives in the town where this person is in prison and where he committed his crimes. Maybe this serial killer is the one I've been talking to? That would be too crazy.....but now I'm wondering. |
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#54
Jun 17, 2016, 03:16 PM
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I just Googled "wanted serial killers June 2016" and this came up. Could this be his hometown?
Possible trigger:
Don't want to trigger anybody. He says they caught that guy, but this is interesting. The FBI also has a new website with sketches created by four witnesses.
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#55
Jun 17, 2016, 03:19 PM
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Yes inmates have access to Internet. It is probably monitored but who knows. They take college classes in prisons and it includes online component.
Why are you surprised it might not be his picture? I thought several posters before me pointed out you don't know who this person is, could be anybody, not even a man or could be a group of people having fun Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#56
Jun 17, 2016, 03:23 PM
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Op said he lives 12 hours flight from her and she lives in US. He can't be in the same country, even Hawaii isn't 12 hours flight from us main land. But then again that's what he says, he might be next door Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#57
Jun 17, 2016, 03:27 PM
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The man I'm talking to lives in Western Europe.
Yeah...this is getting stranger and stranger. Now I would not be surprised if he is this serial killer he told me about. That is, if they have Internet access. Of course a killer/rapist would love to continue their crimes from behind a computer screen after getting life in prison. It may not be the same as the real thing for them, but naturally they would continue to find vulnerable people and victimize them as they can, same as they did before they got caught. Freaky. He presents a sort of naive, innocent persona at times. But I guess anybody who is actually sophisticated could do that if it helps them manipulate people the way they want to. Not to be cliche, but things aren't always as they seem. |
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#58
Jun 17, 2016, 03:35 PM
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Well now your mind is grasping who you might have been flirting with for a year.
Chances are most likely it is a lonely person who used someone else's photo and never plans to see you in person. How much info do they know about you?
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#59
Jun 17, 2016, 03:44 PM
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 We were connected on facebook so they know everything facebook provides. My name, my close relatives, hometown, high school, etc. Unfortunately with the way the Internet is now (at least in the states) all that info is somehow public. You can type in a person's name and it gives you their home address, etc. I don't know how that's legal but that's how it is. I know from googling my own name and don't know how to get rid of it. As I keep saying though, they are a continent away, and supposedly broke. So I doubt they will be showing up at my door. Just getting freaky and weird to consider all the possibilities I hadn't really thought of before. At least they are not in the same state, then I would be really nervous. |
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#60
Jun 17, 2016, 04:03 PM
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Also, if they are on Facebook, they can be traced if you have to bring in police or report them to Facebook for harassment.
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#61
Jun 17, 2016, 04:04 PM
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If you go into Facebook settings, you can make most of your info private.
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#62
Jun 17, 2016, 04:06 PM
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They might have fake profiles on Facebook
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#63
Jun 17, 2016, 05:28 PM
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I could be wrong here ...But I really starting to think this is Trolling thread....
Questions on a thread if he is stalking... okayyyyyy Then this thread and every bit of advice given.. shes coming back basically defening this person??? Im leaning toward calling BS .. JMHO
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#64
Jun 17, 2016, 06:23 PM
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No, this is not a trolling thread.
As I said, already, I have been talking about two different people in different threads. I could see how confusion could arise. One thread I made a few days or so ago was about a different person who seems to be stalking me. The marriage thread is about someone else....although I did post about him back in February or so concerning stalking issues. I can see the confusion. But to clear it up.....two different people. |
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#65
Jun 17, 2016, 06:35 PM
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I believe you. I went back and read all your posts. They are very consistent. Now I am thinking that the 2nd person you are talking about on the other site who is stalking you is the same guy. Could that be possible? Could he know that you are who you are on that site? If not, it is suspiciously strange to be getting stalked by two people.
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#66
Jun 17, 2016, 06:41 PM
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Ahh Okay that makes sense, Sorry .. I do think Trisha might be onto something
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#67
Jun 17, 2016, 06:46 PM
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Their styles are very different, but they have similar psychological diagnoses. Met them both on the same forum. That forum seems to attract a lot of stalker types. Other guys have come on to me very strong too, and could have ended up in stalking situations with them. With these two, for whatever reason, I haven't been able to put up the boundaries. Its stalker haven over there, so I guess that explains why I managed to pick up two stalkers. One guy was already reported to the police by someone else. He's laid off since being visited by the police. |
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#68
Jun 17, 2016, 06:48 PM
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Annnnd, here's something else to chew on... Since you offered up all your info on FB, his profile is most likely fake, and you actually have no clue where he really lives (he says Europe)...
These two people (stalker and fantasy bf) may be one and the same, living in your very own neighborhood, watching you in real time, and that's why no video chat has even been suggested. Be careful about living in a fantasy, when shyt gets real, it tends to get ugly. But then again, this is exactly what everyone has been trying to warn you about.
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#69
Jun 17, 2016, 06:55 PM
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Stop talking to him and block him.
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#70
Jun 17, 2016, 06:57 PM
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Sadly the OP does not seem remotely interested in following such sound advice.  
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#71
Jun 17, 2016, 09:22 PM
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I thought this entire time that you are referring to the same person. Stalker and marriage guy. I know I and several more of us pointed it out that you call him a stalker and then talk about marriage and you never said its not the same guy. I am so confused.
Well even if it's not the same guy you still said he is scary and creepy and give you nightmares What kind of forum is it? I can't imagine what forums have so many scary people? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#72
Jun 17, 2016, 09:30 PM
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 I didn't realize you were posting about two different guys, my bad! I'll go back and re-read. Be safe.
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#73
Jun 17, 2016, 10:40 PM
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The real question is what are YOU getting out of talking to these aggressive, stalkerish, creepy men online? What is missing from your life? What is stopping you from making healthy, real friendships or relationships? Why don't you value yourself more? What do you do for a living that you have 6hrs a day to be online chatting with these men? What else could you be doing with that time that might make you happier or improve your self esteem?
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#74
Jun 17, 2016, 11:08 PM
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I work from my computer so I'm online all the time anyways. Of course it would b easy to block and ignore him if it were all bad. But I'm intrigued and there is also a sort of morbid curiosity. I want to know what he will say and do next. There is a reason women fall for sociopaths. Its because they are charming and they know the right buttons to push. |
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#75
Jun 17, 2016, 11:26 PM
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Sorry, did I just come across as snappy? I hope not.
But its like I said. I feel these guys are stronger than me. I have buttons that can be psushed and maybe I can be manipulated. I wish it was that easy to just block and ignore people. But that would be very hard for me to do. Unless they are extremely mean and unpleasant and I hate them. But that is not the case here. I would miss him a lot if we stopped talking. Its been over a year and I feel I've gotten close to him, as strange as that may sound.
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