Discussing marriage with someone I've never met

I have to agree. I might be wrong but it seems fishy to me...

After reading post #74 and #75, I have to say I'm with Chris too.


No way this is not a troll post, unless its an attention seeking post.


Can't believe I took the OP seriously.


Won't make that mistake again.

Sounds like someone who has been abused by a significant other, who says "They don't hit me all the time, just sometimes". Certain personality types are easily manipulated by sociopathic people. You seem to be very trusting of people that you don't know, which is why you look for the "good" qualities in this person. Sociopaths know exactly what to say & how to act according to how you react.

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After spending time on PC, I've learned that there are very many people out there who are extremely unwell. If I heard or read anything like this before I joined PC, I'd think this person is a troll. Now however I am not sure it's a troll.

Saying that, if someone is willing to make all this up, they are even more unwell then if the story was true. So I don't hold it against them . Also even if it's made up, someone else benefited from people's advice

TRIGER Op actually reminds me of that person who used to post about being TRIGER raped TRIGER by some stranger she invited over, but then she said "he wasn't really all bad because he wash a wine glass after himself". But that poster used no punctuation. But going in circles is similar

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There is something not right in your lack of reactions to all our comments, OP. You don't show any emotion. You just keep saying we may be right, but you don't have the normal reaction that a person will have like, "OMG, I can't believe I've been flirting with God knows who!" You just keep saying you want to keep talking to the stalkers and trying to justify why.

I think you should find yourself a therapist. We've done as much to try to help you as we possibly can here.

If you had been trolling us, you are 'agoodone'

Thank you Tishabuv! That's exactly what I am over here screaming! Lol. The reactions are not normal. Met with rationalization after rationalization. Agoodone never even gets defensive, just rationalizes. This is just a very strange post.

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I'm not trolling. I have never trolled a forum. To me that seems like as much a waste of time as making up fake profiles to chat to people with.

I don't know why my reactions aren't normal. I guess I do have a flat affect. I just try to take time to think about things people say and respond rationally instead of getting upset or defensive, etc.

I tend to be kind of apathetic and detached in general. Its hard to ruffle me.

Anyways I didn't know this thread would go on so long. Its been helpful to me, its given me some new angles and perspectives to look at the situation from.

Thank you for all your help.

Yes, I was raised to always give people the benefit of the doubt, to forgive everything, and also to put others needs before mine. So I was basically taught my own feelings and boundaries don't matter.

I guess that might be why I seem so off and why I'm an easy target for people to take advantage of me.

You are definitely not trolling. Sorry for the accusation.

Because you think your own feelings and boundaries don't matter is why you are a victim to stalkers.

I hope this thread helps you. It's very important to be able to protect yourself. If you don't, no one else will.

Hopefully you can apply what you have learned here to more in your life than JUST this situation.....maybe it can help you grow in other needed areas of your life also

Maybe this thread would help you learn how to protect yourself

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Well, I apologize for saying that your reactions aren't normal. That wasn't cool. You're just different from myself, nothing wrong with that. Good luck to you again.