Tired

Is it really better to be with someone for the sake of being with them, knowing they don't even want you????


Don't you think you deserve better?


I fail to see the logic in this entire situation.


Turn the self respect up a notch and do yourself a favor by walking away.


And if you find its reallllly hard or next to impossible to do that, please find a therapist who can help you work on codependency.

Thank you for your responses! He didn't want to break up last night. I think he just wants to see how it goes. We're only seeing each other 1 day a week & he'll stay the night that night. I'm fine with this because I need my space from him right now to work on myself. He needs this time to work on himself. He's continued to show me effort by texting & calling me. If this changes I will go ahead & break up. I'm done being unhappy.

So I am pretty proud of myself because I broke up with him well actually we both decided to break up because this relationship wasn't good I am doing really good and I'm actually kind of relieved I'm tired of being on this roller coaster ride a relationship. I am now just going to focus on me and work on my self-confidence and my mental health. Thank you all so much for being there for me through everything!!!

This is the 3rd day of break up. Have been feeling sad since yesterday. But I still am glad we're broken up. It's the best thing for me. I do miss him a lot though. I just want to go back to feeling numb. I don't want to feel anything right now. I'm tired of feeling. Sigh......

Broke down and cried tonight. Hadn't done that since the night we broke up. I miss him so bad it hurts. But I keep telling myself that he is not good for me and the best thing for me to do is move on. I am less anxious now that he is not in my life which should tell me something. I still take my Xanax's that the psychiatrist has prescribed for my anxiety but I am finding that I need it less and less. Apparently my animals know that I'm upset because my dog jumped up on the bed and he never does that LOL. I know I'm going to get through this I just wish time would go by faster so I can stop hurting quicker.

Well tomorrow it will be a full week I've been broken up with him. I miss him a lot but I'm getting through it. I haven't cried since Friday & that was only time since the breakup. I'm proud of myself and how I am. I didn't know I could be so strong but I'm doing it! Now just gotta get my heart in check!

Great job! Keep it up

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Thanks divine 1966! : )

Today has been a long day. I am ready to stop feeling & just be numb with this stupid breakup! I'm angry at myself for being so weak sometimes!! I miss him very badly and I'm that I do miss him! I know he's not good for me I know towards the end he really treated me bad but there's just something that keeps me holding on to him and I don't know why?! It is so frustrating but I am proud of myself for getting through it and not contacting him. My main goal right now is to work on myself and start liking myself again.

Keep it up. You are doing very well

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Well he contacted me Thursday evening through text and we talked all evening. I kept getting the feeling that he was sending out signals that he wanted to come over and have sex. Of course I told him that we couldn't do that because I didn't want to have sex outside of the relationship. He seemed fine with that but Friday and today I have not heard anything from him. Whatever I am just proud of myself for being strong and saying no to him on that I am trying to Focus on myself and not him. He did say he wanted to try to get back together in a few months that was his hope. I don't know if I want to or not I'm so confused about this whole thing.

Don't be confused. Stop replying to him

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