the relationship quiz

I took that one relationship quiz to see if my husband is a loser or a winner. Well, I scored a 24. Which means he's a loser. I don't think he's a loser at all. I just think he's not exactally the right one for me. I have been with him for 6 years now...been married for 5. I do love him but not the way i should. I love him because sometimes he is a great man, he can be affectionate. But most the time he pushed me and his kids away. The times when he is affectionate is when he's horney. Kinda sad really. For year i have thought about leaving him but im to weak to do it. I always wounder how would he feel if i did and i don't want to hurt him. I don't know. He just don't know me anymore and i can't be myself when im with him. There is a lot to the story but i will know what to do in time.

Hi there --

Congratulations on giving some serious thought to what you want out of a relationship and life. If you love this man, perhaps the relationship is worth working on? Would he ever agree to go a counselor? Are you in a position to go alone to help you sort things out?

I wouldn't attach too much important to an online or magazine quiz. It's given you good for thought, but it is probably not a solid foundation for making a potentially life-changing decision.

Best wishes with this.

my husband is nice but we aren't ment to be together...i know that. I think that if he was to be with someone else more like him he would be happier and sso would i. I hate to say that but its true. He will never see a counslor i already tried that. Owell.