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Old Dec 27, 2016, 02:49 AM
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As y'all know, two weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend. And though I was the dumper, I still felt pain because I truly loved him, but I just couldn't take his treatment of me anymore. But I'm beginning to fill a bit better.

Yet he managed to hurt me still, through my family! He's spreading false stories, gossip to them, especially through my son. I don't know how to handle this. Tonight I texted him to let know I'm aware of what's going on and that I want it to stop! Lol. Oh I'm fully aware it may not.

Yet Im also incensed at my son too! He's not a little boy. He's a married 49 year old man with a child. I told him today that I feel betrayed, etc, etc. And I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate it if I did the same to him, especially concerning his wife.

I was raised to "mind your own B I business!" I raised my children the same. I'm aware there are things going on in my grown children's lives. Yet I couldn't say what they are because I "mind my own B I business." The same with my siblings, etc. And unless they reveal those things, I don't pry.

So I'm hurting both by my ex spreading his poison, and my son gulping it down!

Oh and by the way...my ex is a 76 year old man child.
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Old Dec 27, 2016, 12:09 PM
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It is way too much drama over someone who you weren't really a couple with (according to you and looking into his lack of interest all these months). This is way too much stress.

You have been posting about your active pursuit of this guy and his resistance for a long time and I am glad you stopped. You need to respect yourself imho.

Completely block him everywhere and stop contacting him. How and what rumors is he spreading? What are the rumors about? Your communication with the guy was so limited and usually initiated by you so I dont see what the rumors coulld be about? I would take it up with your son why is he engaging in rumor spreading? What kind of relationship you have with your son???

Unfortunately you can't control what people do, just distance yourself from drama.
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