Am I being used

I wrote on here before that I am bipolar and my boyfriend is also bipolar, He is really sweet and nice to me but has a bad drinking problem, The problem is in the bedroom, I dont know how much I can put on here without sounding to graphic, He says he is turned on by me and all that, But in the bedroom I am taking care of his needs and he isnt taking care of mine, I am starting to feel like there is something wrong with me, I dont want to go into to much detail but now he even is started to kiss me less, But at the same time just recently told me he loved me, This is making no sense to me, We have not been seeing each other for a long time, But in the beginning he was all over me and now his feelings have grown for me but wants me less physically, I will accept any advice

He even calls me more then at the beginning, It is so confusing to me

Hey - it could just be the mood state he was in when you first met him ... a little hypo ... a little sexual ... maybe his mood is just on the downside right now?

There is another problem I am dealing with here, He has a ex that he says he will never go back to, But she is on his face book and they still communicate with each other, He has not told her that he has a girl friend and he keeps me a secret to his other friends, He will say he has a girl friend but wont tell them who I am, I feel like I am a secret and I dont like that, I want to go to this womans house and ask her what the deal is, I also took some puctures of him and he said dont be poating them on face book like some other chicks have, I felt offended and hurt by that, We have a strong connection but I feel so lonely and sad inside

Wow ... soooo many red flags in your post above .... not disclosing you to others? Why? No no this does not sit well with me ... he doesn't want you to "disclose" his pictures on Facebook. Of course you should be hurt!

I think he's playing you.

Thank you

I agree with Crazy Hitch. The way that he is treating you and hiding you is wrong and very hurtful. No wonder you feel sad and lonely inside.

Well, I don't know a lot of things about bipolar disorder, so I don't know if this behavior is "normal" for him.. however, if you don't think you can put up with it, then you should probably do yourself a favor and leave him.. or at least talk to him, idk :/

Something is very up here. Oh and you know what, I would be posting those pictures of him as your bf, just to see what came out of the woodwork.
But that is just me.
Not something I would advise.

I think the above posters are right. Somethings is off, not so much about the ex, I still talk to a lot of my ex's on fb.
But keeping you a secret. Nah,no,uh uh,nite, Nixie, absolutely not ok.

Good luck, really hope you find the strength to put this him in his place and demand some fair treatment.

Keeping your relationship offline is one thing, being someone's dirty little secret is a whole other kettle of fish.
My bf and I have kept our relationship off SM, mainly due to privacy (we went to HS together so lots of busy body mutual friends is one reason)the other being SM is just a huge gateway to ruining romance ... I would definitely have a huge problem with being a secret though.. His friends and family all know who / what I am.

The bedroom issues could just be that he's quite a selfish lover, and that can be worked on, but the rest of what you describe?

No thank you.

If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck....

It doesn't sound good to me. You do him, but he doesn't please you means he is a selfish lover and using you. Keeping you a secret doesn't mean anything good either. I wouldn't bother confronting the other girl, your problem is with him. It doesn't matter that he says he loves you, he doesn't act like he loves you. Dump him hard is my advice. He may return begging and change his selfish tune or you will be rid of a guy who does nothing for you.